Says she who posts a pic of herself on her avatar in a public forum looking like she might be wearing something quite skimpy (if anything at all) and revealing and also looking like she's possibly drunk or high.
I've had rape victims who've been covered from head to toe, in sweaters and long pants and in no way revealing. Now by your reckoning, they shouldn't have been raped as they took the "precautions" you seem to be advising women take. I've had rape victims who've not taken the drugs knowingly but had their drinks spiked. And you think they are somehow responsible for that? I've had victims who weren't buying or knowingly buying alcoholic drinks but had their drinks spiked with alcohol. Again, what precautions do you think they should have taken. Strange isn't it that a person can be wearing whatever and still get raped. Hell some even take precautions you've suggested and have still been raped. So should women just never leave the house?
Yes women have a right to dress as they damn well please and not be raped. Women can drink as much as they so wish and have the right to not be raped. If you are so gormless as to think that a person, be they male or female, somehow deserves to be raped because they failed to take so called "precautions" then you have missed the fact that even those who take "precautions" get raped. Do you know why? Because there are no "precautions" short of carrying a gun or mace. I was once a victim of a sexual assualt a few years ago by someone I'd considered a friend and a person I'd known for many years. He'd walked me to my car from a restaurant we were dining in because I'd left my jacket in the car. I was dressed in a knee length skirt and a long sleeve shirt, regular business clothes actually since it was a dinner with a bunch of friends after work. Now what precautions could I have taken ToR? Please enlighten me with your wisdom. I never assumed he's pose a threat to my person. I'd known him for many years. I wasn't drunk. I wasn't wearing anything revealing. So what "precautions" should I have taken? The result was that I had deep gouges on my inner thigh and he ended up with my keys jammed in his nuts and bloody pants, as well as a good stiff kick between his legs. He also ended up in jail and last I heard, had enjoyed the loving interest of an inmate. Now should I have been dressed differently? Possibly a chastity belt? Or even a mumu? What if I'd been dressed as you appear to be in your avatar? Would that have
invited the rape even more?
What of a child who's raped? What precautions should they take? Should they dress differently in case someone is perverted enough to be attracted to them? Should they carry a drugs and alcohol lab in their bag to test for such substances in any drink they might have?
Should women also carry little mobile labs to test their drinks as a form of a "precaution"?