why do women do this?
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Chris, Darling,
Do you like the girl? You want to talk to her but she is giving you the shits?
Why do you like her? What attracts you to her
Hopefully you're not fat, because you'd probably traumatize those assistants if you were.
No, and I was told, "No one would complain." Maybe he was being sarcastic, but I doubt it.
Ahhh...the wishy washy, can't make up her mind syndrome. Another beautiful woman quality that guys just love.
It's a quality shared by both sexes.
But I think people should be able to change their minds about a serious decision like sex.
So if a man is turned on by me, I'm obligated to have sex with him regardless of how I feel? Or if I just started my period? Or remember I don't have any rubbers? Or am disgusted because he's not cleaned up before we do it?
Yeah I agree.
Sounds to me like the girl couldn't handle the stress. Some girls do that they get worked up and not able to function, probably because of the guy they're with. Can't operate in the heat of the moment... Too damn nervous... Freeze up.
I think I made it clear that she led me on to it.
lol, ok now I get where the seven years comes from. I was not saying I had no relationships for seven, I was responding to jessie's post...
lol. ive had my fair share of troubled relationships.... not for seven years though
Looks like you are the one who's not very bright for flaming someone without reading the entire post. At least you can subtract 7 from 22 correctly though.
Aww how very nice of you. You should go tell the world about it.
Get off your high horse. You're just some guy on the internet looking to appear self righteous.
A true gentleman would not advertise to the world that he is one.
Chris, Darling,
Do you like the girl? You want to talk to her but she is giving you the shits?
Why do you like her? What attracts you to her
She didn't give me the shits lol, I think she just changed her mind half way through. Why do I like her? shes got this really hot accent and is always very kick back, very easy to talk to.
I mean, even after she said she was not ready, I didn't ask why, I acted like I knew why. And after that there was not a bit of awkwardness really, we just kicked it a little longer and then I went home because she had work the next morning.
I doubt it too. I doubt he would have said that if you looked like and weighed as much as a wildebeast. :roflmao:
Well since I'm straight and don't date men, ultimately their behavior isn't important to me. But yes, both sexes act like that.
To quote the blond curly haired chick from American Pie: It's sex, not the space shuttle launch.
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No, if a man is turned on by you, then it's up to your common #%@#%@#$% sense to not even start anything. If it's a first date, it should be apparently obvious if he's cleaned up or not. If you've just started your period, and don't want to have sex, then you shouldn't start making out to begin with. What do you think the man is going to think when you two start making out? I bet the last thing going through his mind is you all of a sudden saying 'stop, I can't do this' out of the blue. Granted you have a right to do that, but he also has a right to never call you again; and the thing is, he is no less right than you are with his decision.
Your only viable excuse above is the lack of condoms. If he doesn't have any either and still wants to have unprotected sex...especially on a first date, you should dismiss him completely.
Have you called her or has she called you since then?
Probably will today.
She asked me to call her up sometime this week, just taking my time with it since I'm busy with school anyways.
My mom did inform me my bra gave me no shape that day, but sometimes you get an open mind that lets it slide.
Sex can get VERY messy, in a bad way.
Oh my. No, sometime guys haven't trimmed for awhile, or seemingly washed their crotch. And I've started an improptu bled before. Now, on the flip side, sure, he can not ever call me, but on the flip side, I think it's kinder to say, "I'm not ready," then, "Couldn't you have washed your crotch?"
It might be kinder, but it's not entirely true. When you say 'I'm not ready' due to him having an unkept junkyard, he has no idea that you are referring to that. This is what I'm talking about concerning bullshit female hints.
You tell him you're not ready. What happens the next time you two hang out and given he thinks there was nothing wrong with his junk, his junk is in similar shape. Maybe he has no idea. Now he's going to be in the doghouse (due to the fact that you probably won't want to see him anymore after that) just because you were too chicken shit to tell him the truth.
Don't call her at all. Or if you do, wait until next week.
Honestly, if I were you, I'd cut my losses and move on. It's not like there aren't hundreds of millions of other available women out there.
I can assure you shes the one of last things I think about at the moment.
Too busy with school, broken wrist and work to dwell over it.
This thread was just blown out of proportion...
Mike a point if you will.
It sounds like he likes her, despite however much bullshit she put him through. I think that he should give her a chance. Possibly she will come around for him, she sounds a bit like an estatic, who has the maddest of intentions. Goes crazy every once in a while. Loses her temper for the stupidest of reasons etc etc.. Even likes to climb trees. I declare.
What?
It sounds to me like he likes her but he has no intention of putting up with her crap. And he shouldn't. Not even a little.
You think she would give him another chance if he did something like that? HELL NO!
Most women will brush you off at the drop of a hat. Say one wrong word...gone. Make one socially unacceptable gesture...gone. If they can pull that crap, so can we.
Mike, I'm sooo not fucking you just because of that single post.
Mike, I'm sooo not fucking you just because of that single post.
Mike has a point but ...
What single post?Mike, I'm sooo not fucking you just because of that single post.
And what is this talk about fucking, of which this is the first I've heard? :bugeye: