why do women do this?
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Sometimes a date and a meal is just that: an enjoyable evening out in good company (assuming that you are good company, of course)
LOL... or in the OPs case, a date is just that... and a case of blue balls and having the girl say "I think we're going too fast".
Did you bring a rubber? Maybe thats her way of saying "I don't want your STDs" :shrug:
Exactly. I just don't understand how some of these seemingly retarded men go out and dupe some of these women with mental issues. I guess they never got that 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' memo.
I always laugh when a guy does that to a girl then she finds some way to get him back (like scratch up/key the hell out of his nice car, etc.).
"I hope that pussy was worth you getting <insert retaliatory stunt she pulled here> done to you in response of your 'pump and dump' crap."
Men have no idea how to romance women anymore, do they?
What?
I thought you were all sluts just like men.
I'm starting to want my woman back :bawl:
dont you get it,shes a dyke!
or a gold digger looking for a meal..
also she may be worried that once you fuck her you will forget her..some guys are like that.
still,she could have at least give you hand job,no harm done
dont you get it,shes a dyke!
or a gold digger looking for a meal..
also she may be worried that once you fuck her you will forget her..some guys are like that.
still,she could have at least give you hand job,no harm done
Sounds like she likes him.
Expecting a woman to go to bed on the first date? :bugeye:
I have been in those situations lots of times and in every one of those situations I thought to myself ....is this all this guy wants? How many girls does this guy sleep with? Is he a player?
I am not impressed when a guy expects to sleep with you on the first, second or even third date. If you really like eachother what is the big hurry?
I have also had feedback from guys that they repect and actually find you someone that they actually would date long term instead of some chick that jumps right into bed with them. Men are funny, they like trashy easy women but not for the long term. In reality they don't want a girl that sleeps around or sleeps with a guy she just met. When it comes to settling down in a long term relationship they want the " Good Girl".
Oh yeah and I forgot to add........ Why is it that if you don't sleep with the guy you are a cock tease? I have been called that for doing absolutely nothing. :shrug: I never understood that one.
I have been in those situations lots of times and in every one of those situations I thought to myself ....is this all this guy wants? How many girls does this guy sleep with? Is he a player?
I am not impressed when a guy expects to sleep with you on the first, second or even third date. If you really like eachother what is the big hurry?
I have also had feedback from guys that they repect and actually find you someone that they actually would date long term instead of some chick that jumps right into bed with them. Men are funny, they like trashy easy women but not for the long term. In reality they don't want a girl that sleeps around or sleeps with a guy she just met. When it comes to settling down in a long term relationship they want the " Good Girl".
Oh yeah and I forgot to add........ Why is it that if you don't sleep with the guy you are a cock tease? I have been called that for doing absolutely nothing. :shrug: I never understood that one.
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i think the guys hope calling you a cock tease will persuade you to do the no pants dance. the idea is slut trumps cock tease. i'd question whether you did absolutely nothing, that's not to say you deserved to be called a cock tease, and there are guys who will just throw abuse out there for the hell of it.
Yes indeed, some dudes are major jerks, I wouldn't say that I am not, but if someone gets to know me, I am not terribly bad a person. For me, it takes time understanding etc......
You can like someone and still want to sleep with them.
I would agree that many mens intentions are just to get laid, even if you go on 10 dates with them without them making a move, you never know. Some guys make the move the first time, others decide to wait.
Its hard to trust a girl who sleeps on the first date, to most men she is just not "girlfriend material". Its just like how most men would not want to date an ex prostitute, or a stripper.
They are just trying to make you fall for it and no longer be a "tease", if you know what I mean. I think its a really cheap card to pull off that really only would only work on a really stupid person.
Ummm...hello? Are you missing the big picture here, love? She obviously WANTS you to respect her which she gained by holding out on you. You even said so yourself. If you had slept with her right then you probably would have walked away thinking to yourself that it was nice to get your nuts off, but why bother calling again? Like idiots always say (I'm not calling you an idiot by the way because I kind of like you), "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"
Since the dawn of fucking time any woman who puts out on the first "date" is a whore. Blame stereotypes. Maybe if people realized that women have just as many sexual needs as men and respected it then women wouldn't have to worry about holding out and men wouldn't bitch about their blue-balls. Since the day we are born, men and women are conditioned to these idiotic behaviors. Men are taught to pursue and always want sex (even if they don't want it, it's seen as less manly to not try for sex) and women are taught to hold out, say no, and some how control men's "uncontrollable" manly urges. It's a bunch of BS, if you ask me.
Truth be told, she probably likes you and wants you to call her again and she feels that by holding out she will gain the respect she wants from you. Sad for her and you both, but true. Take it as a good sign. It sounds like she she wants another date and that she wants you to come back around, hoping for more. Third time's a charm, by the way
Good luck!
(Ignore the ranting part of this post. It's not directed at you personally. I've had a very bad week)
.She cared about you and didn't wanna appear trashy.
.Maybe she was on her period and did not wanna say it.
Sounds to me like it's one of these. I'm sure she cared about you and didn't want to appear trashy. If she was on her period she would be in the ups and downs, you know, women
.Maybe she was on her period and did not wanna say it.
Sounds to me like it's one of these. I'm sure she cared about you and didn't want to appear trashy. If she was on her period she would be in the ups and downs, you know, women
.She cared about you and didn't wanna appear trashy.
.Maybe she was on her period and did not wanna say it.
Sounds to me like it's one of these. I'm sure she cared about you and didn't want to appear trashy. If she was on her period she would be in the ups and downs, you know, women
lol ya but the period thing is hard to tell lol.
I know some girls act very bitchy, others just act normal, while this girl I dated a while back would just turn extremely nice during her period... A part of me also feels like she would not have led me on in the first place if the period was truly the case, I just put it in the poll anyways.
I think she just realized and changed her mind.
See! She probably just wasn't ready to have sex which should be perfectly acceptable. Many women (myself included) are cautious about who we share our bodies with. Not only because of the respect issue, but also because it is the smart thing to do (health wise and emotionally wise). I've been with my man for 7 years and I didn't sleep with him for three whole months when we first started dating. Why, you may ask? Because I was instantly in love with him and wanted him to know that he was special and that I wanted him to be with me until the day I died. And the fact that he patiently waited like the perfect gentleman for three whole months (never bitching once...never rushing or pushing)...well...it spoke volumes to the love and caring we had for each other and still do
Agreed. Upon realizing that she has issues with her cycle she undoubtedly will attempt to redeem herself.
See! She probably just wasn't ready to have sex which should be perfectly acceptable. Many women (myself included) are cautious about who we share our bodies with. Not only because of the respect issue, but also because it is the smart thing to do (health wise and emotionally wise). I've been with my man for 7 years and I didn't sleep with him for three whole months when we first started dating. Why, you may ask? Because I was instantly in love with him and wanted him to know that he was special and that I wanted him to be with me until the day I died. And the fact that he patiently waited like the perfect gentleman for three whole months (never bitching once...never rushing or pushing)...well...it spoke volumes to the love and caring we had for each other and still do
Well its real good you find someone to care about. Most people never have this for a lifetime. Hopefully it'll happen to most of us.
As for me, well, for now I just enjoy being single. I can't ever really settle, I find too many people too interesting.
I really like women, I have been in love etc... but even then there never has been a time where I wanted to be with that person forever.
I guess I'm just a... "jerk".