Sam,
You know what's most frustrationg about the way you "debate" and discuss?
You remind me of my ex-girlfriend - she used to do the exact same thing (the main reason she's my ex
).
You start with a premise.
When someone attempts to refute that, you slightly shift the discussion to a point that supports what you were trying to say (a very valid Platonic method, if your intention was to bring it back around and support your original assertion).
Someone responds to that.
You pick one point out of what they said and slightly shift again.
Someone responds to that.
You pick one point out of what they said and slightly shift again...
Eventually, you get to a point that you can make and, while it may be a valid point, it has nothing to do with your original assertion and does not support it.
Then you smugly claim victory and the moral higher ground.
Still, for some reason, I can't help but like you - that was my problem with my ex, too.