That sort of sleight of rhetoric is extremely dishonest, and also extremely old and worn-out, and thus extremely stupid.Are you also applying those misandrist stereotypes to the 57% of women who hold a pro-life view (that abortion should be either illegal altogether or legal only in a few circumstances)?
By your measure, the majority of pro-choice is also pro-life.
But let us take LACP, which means no abortions period; in that case you're talking about twenty percent, and thus the answer to your question—
No, only extremists demand that their opposition must take the position of the other extreme. You are the one being dishonest if you cannot manage to admit that abortion under the strict circumstances of rape or serious health risk has little to do with a pro-choice position. Is there some choice? Sure, but only because the woman is subject to something she had absolutely no initial choice in.
The initial choice, of being sexually active, is the one anti-abortionists believe to be the ethically responsible one.
—is a simple, long-understood psychological term: conditioning.How exactly is this majority of women "perverts"?
You know, there is a famous book somewhere that says, "Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it."
If you train generations of women to view themselves as subordinate and inferior to men, they will believe it.
Bullshit. I have both read about and personally known women who were pro-choice until they had an abortion themselves, at which point they became stridently pro-life. This would refute your justification for dismissing what these women choose. How can you ethically dismiss 57% of women under the guise of advocating for women?
To the other ... well, okay. Perhaps you can answer the question for me: Why do so many people try to argue political issues taking place within a culture while excluding any consideration of the culture itself?
No, really, it has functional value: Are you actually unaware that there is a strong relationship between cultural immersion and ideology?
Are you aware that you often use this to make a hasty generalization of all women who oppose abortion, only to dismiss those who do so without any significant ideological influence?
Nicole, 19
Kentucky, 2013
It was this past spring. The due date’s coming up—I’m dreading it. I wanted to keep it. My boyfriend always had football practice, so he couldn’t go to the doctor appointments with me. If he’d gone, he would’ve felt differently. But he said, “No way.” I wanted to show him that I loved him enough to do it for him. ...I was hysterical, and he said, “Okay, you don’t have to go back.” I was so happy. Then he said, “We drove all this way. Stop crying, act like a woman.” I was angry, but I was so sleepy and tired of fighting. When I had the ultrasound, I asked for the picture and a nurse said, “Seriously?” A month later, he said he regretted it too. When I cry about it, I cry alone.
Heather, 32
Tennessee, 2011 and 2013
I already had two daughters. ...My husband and I were having financial problems and were considering separating. I just had to shut my conscience down. The doctor was grotesque. He whistled show tunes. I could hear the vacuum sucking out the fetus alongside his whistling. When I hear show tunes now, I shudder. Later, he lost his license. A few months ago, I got pregnant again. My in-laws have been helping us out financially, so we have no choice but to involve them in our decisions. They gave us $500 cash to bring to the clinic. I felt very forced. I felt like I was required to have an abortion to provide for my current family. Money help is a manipulation. I’m crazy in love with my daughters—imagine if I did that to them? It’s almost too much to open the door of guilt and shame because it’ll all overcome me. In the waiting room, there was a dead silence that’s hard to describe. Everyone was holding in her emotions to a heartbreaking degree.
Mayah, 23
Oregon, 2009
The only people who would listen to me say I had any emotions were people who wanted me to fall down on my knees and ask for forgiveness. I saw a counselor at a crisis pregnancy center, but she gave me an icky feeling. There’s no room to talk about being unsure.
Abby, 28
New York and Oklahoma, 2010 and 2011
The first time I was 25, in New York. From the time I was a teenager, the idea of having an abortion if pregnant was a no-brainer. I had this idea you can’t let life get in the way of your plans.
Alex, 24
New York, 2006 and 2012
I’m pro-choice, but for some reason I still hold a stigma for people who’ve had multiple abortions, and yet I’ve had multiple. ... When I was 17, the toughest part was being asked if I wanted to see the ultrasound. That was the first time it was really presented to me, real. I went on birth control right after, but it gave me mood swings, made me feel terrible, so after a couple of years I went off it. ... It does affect you. Sometimes you regret and sometimes you feel good. You think, The baby would be a year old now.
Lynn, 28
Kentucky, 2012
...I drove four hours by myself, thinking about what an idiot I was for stopping birth control.
- http://nymag.com/news/features/abortion-stories-2013-11/?mid=nymag_press
Kentucky, 2013
It was this past spring. The due date’s coming up—I’m dreading it. I wanted to keep it. My boyfriend always had football practice, so he couldn’t go to the doctor appointments with me. If he’d gone, he would’ve felt differently. But he said, “No way.” I wanted to show him that I loved him enough to do it for him. ...I was hysterical, and he said, “Okay, you don’t have to go back.” I was so happy. Then he said, “We drove all this way. Stop crying, act like a woman.” I was angry, but I was so sleepy and tired of fighting. When I had the ultrasound, I asked for the picture and a nurse said, “Seriously?” A month later, he said he regretted it too. When I cry about it, I cry alone.
Heather, 32
Tennessee, 2011 and 2013
I already had two daughters. ...My husband and I were having financial problems and were considering separating. I just had to shut my conscience down. The doctor was grotesque. He whistled show tunes. I could hear the vacuum sucking out the fetus alongside his whistling. When I hear show tunes now, I shudder. Later, he lost his license. A few months ago, I got pregnant again. My in-laws have been helping us out financially, so we have no choice but to involve them in our decisions. They gave us $500 cash to bring to the clinic. I felt very forced. I felt like I was required to have an abortion to provide for my current family. Money help is a manipulation. I’m crazy in love with my daughters—imagine if I did that to them? It’s almost too much to open the door of guilt and shame because it’ll all overcome me. In the waiting room, there was a dead silence that’s hard to describe. Everyone was holding in her emotions to a heartbreaking degree.
Mayah, 23
Oregon, 2009
The only people who would listen to me say I had any emotions were people who wanted me to fall down on my knees and ask for forgiveness. I saw a counselor at a crisis pregnancy center, but she gave me an icky feeling. There’s no room to talk about being unsure.
Abby, 28
New York and Oklahoma, 2010 and 2011
The first time I was 25, in New York. From the time I was a teenager, the idea of having an abortion if pregnant was a no-brainer. I had this idea you can’t let life get in the way of your plans.
Alex, 24
New York, 2006 and 2012
I’m pro-choice, but for some reason I still hold a stigma for people who’ve had multiple abortions, and yet I’ve had multiple. ... When I was 17, the toughest part was being asked if I wanted to see the ultrasound. That was the first time it was really presented to me, real. I went on birth control right after, but it gave me mood swings, made me feel terrible, so after a couple of years I went off it. ... It does affect you. Sometimes you regret and sometimes you feel good. You think, The baby would be a year old now.
Lynn, 28
Kentucky, 2012
...I drove four hours by myself, thinking about what an idiot I was for stopping birth control.
- http://nymag.com/news/features/abortion-stories-2013-11/?mid=nymag_press
Still, though, if you want to complain that excessive concern with other people's sex lives is considered perverted, what word would you use to describe it? If you want to complain that willfully visiting harm on women in general isn't misogyny, what word would you use to describe it?
"Visiting harm"?! In what way?
Expecting others to show a modicum of personal responsibility for their own actions is very far from perverted. Again, you seek to demonize pro-lifers only to avoid any question of personal responsibility in the initial choice. I have already shown that ready access to birth control drastically reduces abortion. If I were a woman I would find it upsetting that my gender would require welfare to make responsible choices.
We hear this complaint over and over again. Black people are evil but that doesn't make the guy who says it racist. Gays should be put in an oven and cooked alive, but that doesn't make the guy who says it a homophobe. Give me a freakin' break. We should endanger women's integration into mainstream society—health, mental health, education, economy—because of an ontological fantasy with no ratioanl suport, but that doesn't make the advocates who want to harm women in pursuit of their own aesthetics misogynist.
Again, what "harm"? You mean the consequences of their choices? You seem to conflate both violence and hate with simply disapproving of an action/choice/behavior. Now there are extremists, but you making hasty generalizations of everyone as such, indiscriminately, is intellectually dishonest. I have people in this thread saying "murder is wrong" not that "all women are evil" (i.e. the definition of a misogynist).
You can be ethically opposed to something without hate or violence. Or do you advocate these toward anyone who disagrees with you?
No, Syne. You do not get to be a misogynist and be spared the word. You do not get to be willfully disrespectful and then demand respect. Again, I find myself wondering, "How does he not know that?"
How is having a differing ethical view to yours disrespectful? Oh right, that is how propaganda works.
Here, I'll give you an example. Earlier in this thread, I was having an odd discussion aside with another member that involved odd digressions about men having babies and so forth. Despite its strangeness, it was not without its utility. And then some anti-abortion genius wandered in, and, I don't know, maybe thinking he was witty, summed up the entire conversation thus: "So...let me see if I have this straight. Because men cannot get pregnant women should have unimpeded choice regardless of any consideration of personhood?"
The first obvious question is, "What the fuck?" The second obvious question clarifies the first: "What the hell is he on about?"
We who have been taking part in this political discussion are accustomed to this. It doesn't matter what we actually say, some anti-abortion advocate thinks it's somehow intelligent to simply disregard that and restate the argument according to a movement caricature.
First, get over your self-righteous self. Second, how else would you characterize the argument that "f both sexes could have babies, abortion would be legal"? Is that another caricature? Perhaps like the one about that 57% of women being subordinate perverts?
Do you get that you are arguing an impossibility against the reality? That you seek to dismiss the reality, of 57% of women being non-nominally pro-life, while asserting something that can never be tested?
For one, if both sexes could have babies, everyone would be financially responsible for their own, rather than predominately the impregnator. As well as requiring the rapist to be fully responsible, would you agree that consensual sex fathers should not be held responsible for any unwanted child, regardless of the woman's choice?
If not, you are the sexist, demanding double-standards.
No, really, we are approaching eight hundred posts in this thread, and the anti-abortion argument is still scared silly by the proposition. Then again, that is easily enough explained: The problem with the topic proposition might well be that in order to suspend a woman's general human rights she must first have them.
Who has denied that women have human rights? Oh right, more propaganda.
This was the original question, which conceded LACP at the outset. We've covered reiterations of life at conception, the rights of men, the rights of corpses, and now we're onto a whining distraction about why bigots need special accommodation.
Yeah. Point taken.
So let me put this as simply as possible: If you don't like being called a misogynist, stop being one.
Again, not everyone here concedes LACP, and you only seem to assume it to justify your propaganda. I can only assume, at this point, that you are as hysterically misandristic as Bells. You insist on assuming the worst of those who disagree with you, regardless of any clear statement to the contrary.