....do you swear at your kids?
I think I've said hell. Like "What the hell are you doing?!" But that's about it.
and hell would freeze over before I EVER laid a hand on my Mom. EVER!
....do you swear at your kids?
My Mom and I use swear words casually during conversation. Swear words aren't a big deal in my home. We don't use them as punctuation, but they're not a mortal sin either.
I would.
If someone hits me, be them my mother, father, my partner or anyone man or woman i would hit them back. No questions asked.
respect is earned, not automatically given. I know what its like to be bullied, in primary school i had to walk all the way around the school (insted of just walking straight through and home as we lived 4 doors from the school) and hide in a bush so that this kid who tried to hang me didnt get me. Im not the strongest person around but im dam sure i will NEVER be in that situation again, NEVER!!!
Why would I assault them for being curious?
It doesn't set a good example for my children to have hit their grandmother.
I won't do it. She hits me, she hits me. Its my MOM!
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So what your saying is its ok to hit them untill they are big enough to defend themselves then you should stop because they could hurt YOU?
No i didnt defend myself untill i was strong enough to actually do it. I probably tried before then but i doubt it was effective
My Mom and I use swear words casually during conversation. Swear words aren't a big deal in my home.
So yes i will admit i have hit my mother, like you my father never hit us but our mother did. I dont like being slaped across the face so she found out how bad it feels.