Thank you for the reminder, LawDog.
One day I crossed paths with a homeless person named Jesse. I myself was walking back to my four star hotel with a handful of nachos. I had pity on the man, so I sat next to him in my Armani suit, gave him some money, offered some nachos, and asked him if there is anything I can do for him.
No sooner that I did this, he said, "You aren't going to start talking about Jesus are you?"
I told him no, and that I just wanted to see if there was anything I could do for him.
He made me think about what Christians are doing to the world, and how we sound to the world. Obviously, he had been approached in the same manner before and then told about Christ until he was blue. Did it do any good? No, he was still there on the street.
Doom and gloom preaching needs to be left to those who want to listen, or who at least believe in God. Instead, we need to follow Christ's example. He called people to gather, fed them, healed them, then told them about himself and God. It does more good to help the needy and protect the weak, than to shout at them about their life.
By the way, you are confused about Jesus's love. It is unconditional, he takes us as we are and changes us. Salvation, on the other hand (as you have pointed out in scripture), is conditional of belief in Jesus Christ. Just because my son says he hates my guts, doesn't mean I love him any less, but he will not enter my house with a rebellious heart. Today, we live in grace. God sees us through Jesus's sacrifice and what we could be if we believe. It is up to us to choose to accept him and make that a reality. Jesus's love is unconditional, if it weren't, there would be no Christians. We love him because he first loved us. Jesus sits with sinners and breaks bread with them, then tells them to follow him. His love is unconditional.