Well I can only say 'well done'. What you have managed to do is highlight the exact reasons people become religious. Ok, it didn't actually change anything from my post, but it was certainly still worth you pointing it out.
As humans we're all vulnerable. Our loved ones do die - regardless to what jesus says, and sometimes those we love leave us, regardless to what god says. Humans are a species that don't generally like to be vulnerable, and as such create methods with which to remove those vulnerabilities.
I meet quite a few people who, because of past events, find it very hard to get into stable relationships. One person has been turned down, rejected and 'dumped' one time too many, and as such no longer even bothers trying to find stability. We're not just talking love either, they display the symptoms in many key areas - love, employment, keeping to schedules and so on. They are just too used to being rejected. To them god becomes the perfect excuse, and they end up waffling the same sentences you do. You see, when it comes down to the crunch, they just can't succeed in life, and so they must look elsewhere for satisfaction and the stability they require but know deep in their heart they can't get.
If religion wanted to make itself even better, it could even have god saying: "you're magnificent", "you're really quite a beautiful person", and other gratifying comments that many need to hear to feel good about themselves, instead of the very self-centred approach that the christian gods take, (i.e I'm god, I'm cool, I love myself).
Who knows, maybe it will be considered once they figure out whether homo's truly are evil and all the other issues they need to work on.
Of course, a person with this frame of mind wont understand when you explain it to him, which is why this post, and any such future post becomes completely pointless. An alcoholic will very rarely tell himself that drink is not very good for him, and by the same token a religious man will not realise that god is merely a substitute for personal failures.
Don't get me wrong, if it stops people jumping off cliffs, it's gotta be a good thing.
Fear is the absense of love.
"Do not raise your hand against the boy," the angel said. "Do not harm him, for now I know you fear god."
No love there then?
"The lord said unto me, Gather me the people together, and I will make them hear my words, that they may learn to
fear me all the days that they shall live upon the earth, and that they may teach their children."
No love there then.
"O that there were such an heart in them, that they would
fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them, and with their children for ever!"
No love there then.
"That thou mightest
fear the lord thy god, to keep all his statutes and his commandments, which I command thee, thou, and thy son, and thy son's son, all the days of thy life; and that thy days may be prolonged."
"Thou shalt
fear the lord thy god, and serve him, and shalt swear by his name."
Do notice that he doesn't ask you to love him, but to fear him. No love there then heh.
"And the lord commanded us to do all these statutes, to
fear the lord our god, for our good always, that he might preserve us alive, as it is at this day."
Again notice how he doesn't ask for love, but fear.
"Therefore thou shalt keep the commandments of the lord thy god, to walk in his ways, and to
fear him."
And again.
"And now, Israel, what doth the lord thy god require of thee, but to
fear the lord thy god"
He requires you to fear him. According to you fear is the absence of love, so if he wants you to fear him, he obviously knows you cannot love him, so sayeth Woody, so sayeth god.
Shall I continue? Are you aware of how many more hundred statements I can quote from the bible where god says to fear him, without even mentioning love?
"Ye shall walk after the lord your god, and
fear him, and keep his commandments, and obey his voice, and ye shall serve him, and cleave unto him."
"that thou mayest learn to
fear the lord thy god always."
"And it shall be with him, and he shall read therein all the days of his life: that he may learn to
fear the lord his god"
"If thou wilt not observe to do all the words of this law that are written in this book, that thou mayest
fear this glorious and fearful name, the lord thy god"
Before you try the worthless, "but it's a faulty bible version" excuse, let me just point out that that's the KJV. I will stop there for now, but let it be said that you simply have no case.
The biblical facts would show that god wants you to fear him. As you have pointed out, you can't fear and love someone - hell, you went so far as to tell me that I "aint got the right thing", and yet that is the relationship that god wants with you. You're just not paying attention to him - although it's hard to miss given the few hundred times he states it loud and clear.
I eagerly await a debate, but I am aware you're the type that just prefers to ignore that which you can't argue. But seriously, all this time you were loving god when you should have actually been pooping your panties just at the mention of his name.
It's weird isn't it. We use the word "fear" for things that we as humans do not want to be near. Fear is often considered the worst of human emotions, and although it's actually quite handy from a survival perspective, people do not look upon fear in a good way at all. If you would like to see fear in action, buy a gun and hold it to someones head. Watch what fear can do to a person, and then remind yourself that that's what god expects from you, wants from you, and demands from you.
So, can I expect a decent retort?