why would membership in a club mean more than what a person actually does or is?
It's not just "membership in a club." You're confusing Christianity with Judaism, at least the Reform movement: "It doesn't matter what you believe so long as you follow the rules." In Christianity, the most important rules are: 1) You must believe in God, and 2) You must believe that Jesus was and is his son.
This isn't "membership," this is
who you are. Are you a person who can do that, and if so are you going to do it? If not then you will be in the wrong column on God's Naughty-Or-Nice List forever, and since after you die you will still be alive, forever really means forever.
Remember that we're talking about a god with such a big, fragile ego, that the most horrible thing imaginable to him is that somewhere on this planet there walks a human being who does not believe in him. Civilization, art, music, strong family values, nations coming together in peace, curing of disease...
none of that matters if we are doing that
instead of convincing all the unbelievers to be believers.
This is, arguably, the most important theme in Abrahamist mythology. It goes all the way back to the Jews, and that story is so powerful that every Abrahamist sect that has arisen since then has been solidly evangelical. Ever since the God of Abraham made himself known, his primary concern is to get humans to acknowledge his existence. Obviously we're also supposed to pledge our allegiance to him as an extra little boost to his fragile ego, but once we become aware of him we'll realize that he is so infinitely powerful (and so easily angered) that we will be lining up to pledge our allegiance.
God has always wanted his children to evangelize their faith to the rest of humanity. When the Jews were in bondage in Egypt (an event upon whose veracity, BTW, a great deal of doubt was cast just recently: apparently they were just migrant laborers who found good jobs), God made a deal with them: "I will free you from bondage, if you promise to evangelize the One True Faith, i.e. faith in Yours Truly, to the ends of the earth and convince every human being to be good Jews like you guys."
Of course the Jews nodded their heads vigorously, or whatever ritual was required, and made the promise. (This agreement is known as "The Covenant.")
Well we all know what
didn't happen. Judaism is, in fact the
only non-evangelical Abrahamic religion! Even the Rastafarians make an attempt at converting you when they're not busy getting high, and you don't even have to ask about the Mormons! (Whom I list separately because many Christians insist that Mormons aren't really Christians.)
The Jews broke the Covenant! I don't know if they originally intended to be evangelical and then gave up when they found out that just about everybody hated them and wasn't going to listen to their sermons, or if they had their fingers crossed when they made the promise. But they broke the dadgum thing.
And just look at how God responded to this affront. The history of the Jews has been a long list of "Really Awful Things That Can Happen To You." War, the destruction of the Temple (twice), occupation by various non-Jewish nations, the Diaspora, the thousand years of antisemitism that virtually defines European Christendom, the Holocaust, assimilation in friendly host countries becoming the biggest risk to the survival of the Jews as a community, and, finally, the British giving them a homeland without looking first to see if somebody was already living there.
God is
really pissed off at the Jews and he's making an example of them so that no one will ever be as insolent as they were.
And the only thing he's pissed off about is that
the Jews don't try to convince other people to believe in him! That's the most important thing to him in the universe.
So "membership in a club" has nothing to do with this. It is far more fundamental and far more dire. You have to believe in God or you will spend eternity in Hell standing on your head in warm shit. And if you do believe in God, you have to devote a considerable amount of time and effort tracking down people who don't and teaching them the error of their ways. Otherwise, well you might not go to Hell, but you won't get a window seat in Heaven and you'll be next to somebody who forgot that he's in Heaven and is still trying to convert you.
Oh yeah, I almost forgot, the Jews blew it for everybody so God raised the stakes. Now you don't have to just believe in God. You have to believe in Jesus too.
this metaphor is a lesson on truth. anyone that would willingly accept rituals or a religious premise over what is actually true or valuable is not someone that is of any true ethics or substance.
But they twist this around. It is not a test of
ethics. It is a test of
faith. Yes indeed believing in the fundamental tenets of Christianity requires taking leave of your senses. Are you willing to do this? In this sense it does become the "membership in a club" thing you brought up. It's like joining a street gang: you have to do something humiliating, debasing. Making that kind of a sacrifice proves your loyalty. Well sacrificing your rationality is proof of your loyalty to God and Jesus.
you will often hear of religionists state that even a good person will go to hell just because they are not a christian. that's a very loaded statement and belief and reveals a hell of a lot about the source.
I must say that I hear just the opposite so often that it gives me hope. Several people have told Mrs. Fraggle and me, "You are more Christian than we are. You do the things that God wants us to do but we are too weak to follow through. You're not prejudiced, you loudly object to war, you are honest, you help the poor, you teach. I don't care what my preacher says. God will let you into Heaven because if you don't deserve to go then I certainly don't either."