what type of Girlfreind should i get ?

Liebling said:
You have GusGus on ignore? Forwhy? Spookzy is our favourite little mouse, like Despereaux with a foul mouth. Though I think he's getting dull in his old age. He rarely posts anymore, and doesn't have the passion he used to. Talk about wasted potential or just simple ennui with the place.

But hell, even I am getting bored. 98% of the posters are just the same record that's been playing for 4 years... The interesting folks either don't come around enough, or have been banned.

"Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving us wordy evidence of the fact." - George Elliot.
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Fly you mean. Mice belong to a higher species.
 
How about one that doesn't speak your lanquage so she won't understand you and will be immune to your mastery of psychological manipulation.
 
Orleander said:
I actually think that's good advice. Actions speak louder than words.
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LMFAO, I just noticed the words at the bottom of your avatar. Sponge is classic, I like the episode where Crabs makes Plankton think crabbie patties are made from Plankton.
 
Orleander said:
if you are extremely skilled at this, why don't you have one already?
what type of girlfriend have you had in the past? That way we will know what kind of girlfriend won't work with your personality.
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very intelligent(above average), strong minded, non prudish, romantic, naturally analytical, sexy(turns most guys heads).

you know the bit about not speaking is kinda funny cos i kinda do that now.
i try not to speak too much so my lust doesn't take control and try and manipulate them emotionally or psychologically.
but i have noticed over the years most women expect men to play a part they have mapped out already.
the "game" as it were.
if the guy does not say the right things and act in the right way then she will not be interested.
i have refused to play the game that they want knowing if i did they would like me.
but i don't want a women who is soo small minded that she plays games like that and cant actually think for herself.
Obviously a woman that plays games is making a statement that she is happy about being played herself(in spite of them complaining all the time about men playing them better than they play the men).
it is SOO hard to find women that don't play games.

but i look at all these guys trying to play these games to win a women and convince her to be with him...
its all plastic.
i am beginning to think that maybe it is just better to use woman instead of martyring myself to look for one that is soo rare she probably lives on another planet.
maybe just a lil bit of love is all they should get.
just enough to keep them hanging on.
and then use them for how i want and make me the centre of attention in my own life.
surely they are the centre for their own yes ?

all's fair in love and war ?
 
ripleofdeath said:
...i have refused to play the game that they want knowing if i did they would like me....
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so do you want a woman or not? If you are purposely trying not to, then quit it. Quit it today.

Now, from what you have told us, I'm thinking you should have a woman by Monday. :shrug: Keep us posted
 
Orleander said:
so do you want a woman or not? If you are purposely trying not to, then quit it. Quit it today.

Now, from what you have told us, I'm thinking you should have a woman by Monday. :shrug: Keep us posted
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no its not like that.
i can figure out peoples issues, and insecurities etc...
i am extremely skilled at it and watch their body language and sus out their personality traits from just casual contact, thus i know that type of personality they are looking for in a partner and what they find attractive, even if that is not my actual personality i can fake it and act how they would want someone to act.
thus i am completely putting it on, and they would like me for it, even have sex with me for it too.
unfortunately we have a high rate of stds in nz but that is mainly between the young teenagers because our sex edd is really shit.

i can also mimic someones personality which i have done a few times just to freak the person out.
i don't d it anymore as it upsets people too much i don't want to give someone a mental breakdown or anything.
im actually a nice person to nice people.

hence imagine if you were compatible with me for dating and you fancied me and then found out all this about me...
would you still be keen to date me ?
i doubt it about 99%
you would never be able to trust me.
that is the sad fact about it.
and whos fault would that be ?
 
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ptvo said:
I advice you to stay alone if you are skilled in psychological manipulation
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Good advice but not as much as you think.... It sounds to me like he is very skilled at manipulation but also very kind and loving. I'd suggest see him give the girl something like a flower, maybe a new pair of shoes or some flirting. If she likes him then they're a match made in heaven.
 
the question is: is ripple ready for a gf? one thing i would do is dig deep and ask yourself: how would i like to be treated. if you think you may treat someone badly then you have to just walk away. sure you think you may manipulate someone but there may come a time when you will be manipulated. the main thig is to not take advantage of anyone.
 
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