what type of Girlfreind should i get ?
- Thread starter ripleofdeath
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How do you expect to make a post like this and not get flamed...
If it wasn't tak, it would have probably been lucysnow who would have started shit.
As far as I can tell, get one that's not very opinionated, or has the same views you do...because sometimes I feel like you try to get into peoples faces.
Mrs.Lucysnow
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Worse I've had him on ignore for like...years
Actually the only member I have on ignore.
ripleofdeath
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How do you expect to make a post like this and not get flamed...
If it wasn't tak, it would have probably been lucysnow who would have started shit.
As far as I can tell, get one that's not very opinionated, or has the same views you do...because sometimes I feel like you try to get into peoples faces.
you are quite right chriss i do get in peoples faces.
why ?
all i am doing is asking a simple question yet look at the ego parading out trying to assert themselves into the superior position.
as for sharing my views... if i am skilled then i can simply make her think that my opinions are her opinions and she would effectively have no free will.
she would love me as i wanted (as she thought it would be love) and think of me what i wanted her to think of me.
it is actually a serious question but knowing most would think i was just trying to play the same game they wish they could play, i thought it worth a bit of a laugh to post my thought.
what is quite fascinating is that you are the first person to take my question mildly serious and for that i commend you.
you must be quite a fascinating person.
possibly not soo polluted with ego and pride as many others.
if you have a GF then she would indeed be lucky i think.
unless she is one of those who wants to turn you into the little pin up fashion model and trys to dress you like a doll and treat you like an arm piece for her little social games etc...
anywho...
think about it.
if you had the ability to manipulate the mind of most people/women in this case and could make yourself be liked by pretty much any of them...
how wouold you know when you had met a women who really liked you for being you ?
how would you choose one above the other knowing you could simply mold her perception of things to fit your own desire ?
it is a very deep philosophical question of ethics and morality which seems to have been lost on the majority.
now i have spelled it out maybe some can nail down their egos long enough to post something less ego maniacal and real about themselves and what they are made of morally and ethically.
or not hahahaha
or not is likely vastly more popular
you need to get someone who your are comfortable with, and you can talk to, someone you trust and trusts you, and also somene who isnt affraid to speak they're mind because i have a gut feeling that if a GF hid anything from you, you wouldnt like it
Challenger78
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Someone superficial who likes bright colours and annoys people.
ripleofdeath
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Ah, that made me laugh.
wrong !
it made you feel like you had seen some revenge take place where you felt i had been emotionally hurt and so you felt happy about that.
if you cant be honest with yourself then you cant be honest with other people.
do you feel you have been aggrieved now ?
or do you need to continue to try and hurt me emotionally ?
at what point do you decide you have balanced the scales ?
or are you just going to claim that it is funny and i am being too serious because you use that as an excuse to try and lie and say you do not really mean it ?
what next ?
where will you turn ?
what will you do ?
will you continue to hurt others when you feel hurt ?
or will you choose to not be part of the continuation of sadistic emotional abuse in the world around you ?
think carefully because what you decide will effect the rest of your life.
and...
you cant go back and change it once you have already chosen.
you cant go back and change the past.
you have an advantage over many others and that is your youth.
you can use it to learn or fail like the majority around you and simply follow all the others in their sadistic emotional abuse of others so they can feel a little rush for a while until they slip back into their depths of their own self inflicted misery of depression and empty black hearted life styles.
maybe you will find a freind like her to go and sadistically abuse others and feel like your having fun while you feed off the misery of those you predate on...
all that hope you carry inside you...
what ever will you do with it ?
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Challenger78
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Sadistic emotional abuse sounds like fun!. mmmm schadenfreude
Worse I've had him on ignore for like...years
Actually the only member I have on ignore.
You have GusGus on ignore? Forwhy? Spookzy is our favourite little mouse, like Despereaux with a foul mouth. Though I think he's getting dull in his old age. He rarely posts anymore, and doesn't have the passion he used to. Talk about wasted potential or just simple ennui with the place.
But hell, even I am getting bored. 98% of the posters are just the same record that's been playing for 4 years... The interesting folks either don't come around enough, or have been banned.
"Blessed is the man who, having nothing to say, abstains from giving us wordy evidence of the fact." - George Elliot.
ripleofdeath
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crys the child screaming how damaged they are and how it is not their fault and how much of a victim of society they are...
"yawn"
superficial ?
is that like when you blame everything else and everyone else so you never have to try and actually achieve anything ?
or
is that just trying superficially ?
your content is a little thin on personality there i must admit.
are you living your life in a vacuum ?
go on chellenger take that character that has already been chosen for you.
be the little boy dressed up as cute as can be in a sailors uniform looking to feel lust and passion by feeding blood lust with your daydreams of violence.
but remember... your still just doing what they told you to.
kind of ironic isn't it ?
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You will have to learn a few things before you'll have a successful relationship. First, you have to throw out all your preconcieved notions and prejudgements of people. Second, you'll have to realize that everyone is wrong most of the time... yourself included. Third, you might want to try to understand that sometimes when people give you criticism, it's well intentioned and not a slight to your ego. And lastly, that life and all it's facets are a compromise, not a battle.
Then, once you've mastered those concepts... find a girl.
Do you expect me to reply to this? Seriously?
ripleofdeath
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oh the irony hahahahahahhaa
please edificate me oh learned one.
what is the divorce rate ?
is that like a majority that break up or stay together ?
is that a successful relationship ?
what about all those who don't get married and change partners every year or two ?
is that what you call successful ?
hahahahahahhaahaha
come on at least try and have an informed debate if your going to pretend to be serious
ripleofdeath
Registered Senior Member
of coarse not.
since i closed off most of your options.
there is not really anything you can say to actually engage in debate(or more precisely pretend to while seeking to have another go at playing the pre ordained role of emotional sadist) on the issue.
i am well aware of that.
it is not as if you have a free mind and can simply give your honest opinion on a subject now is it...
at least not without pretending to and making it a cock fight.
ripleofdeath
Registered Senior Member
this thread has been a test of the engagement of the most prolific posters.
to test their humanity, compassion, reason and ego.
power over others is the most definitive and pretty much all who have posted have failed the test.
the absolute irony in that is these people will be able to have kids and will go on to have power over the minds of their own children.
scary thought really.
Yes, but the irony is in your response, not in my suggestion.
if you are extremely skilled at this, why don't you have one already?
what type of girlfriend have you had in the past? That way we will know what kind of girlfriend won't work with your personality.