I am not paranoid or defensive, but you need to be aware of the fact that lots of non-theists take offense at the absolute way in which many theists (including yourself) express their beliefs.
i just hope it's not necessary for me to preclude every sentence with "i think" in order to be understood. i mean, can't anything be a given. and you need to be aware that non-theists make a lot of assumptions about theists that in my case, are not the case. it gets so tiring and futile having to argue about semantic and assumptions. i would really rather share ideas about the topics.