/1- You claim that being gay is not about sex, yet you don't tell me what prevents a gay person from having a relationship with a woman, if sex is not the issue.
I'm sure you mean a gay man, and so I'd say it's probably that he's GAY that he doesn't want to have sex with a woman, which probably means he's not at all attracted to a women and so he doesn't get aroused by them or is disgusted at the thought of doing it with a chick in the same sense that I'm disgusted at the thought of doing it with a guy.
/2- You claim that gay couples can raise healthy children, yet you don't provide one single personal experience with the matter.
Can you? I can't either, but don't think sexuality has much to do with child raising. If you're an earnest, kind and mature person I'm almost sure you'd do well raising a kid. Don't you think so? Hell I'm not positive of course but it seems to make a lot of sense to me that sexual orientation is quite low on the list of properties of humans that make them qualified to raise children.
/Not one account of a grown human that was raised by gays was given by any of the posters. No statistics on children raised by gay couple and how they turned out to be as adults. No school grades for children of gay parents.. No suicidal rates, ect. None of the posters that advocate the issue have been raised in gay homes. None of the posters that advocate the issue have raised children to adulthood successfully. No info, just claims on success.
Such is true. How have you supported your points though? Your opinion seems based in religious morality rather than independent thought. I might ask why you seem to put sexual orientation so high on the list of relevant properties? It seems that you deem sexual homosexuals as bad to begin with. That being the case, it seems that your points are based in the fact that you don't like gays. That's fine but I don't thinki it really holds a lot of merit in the argument as to whether or not they could be good parents except in that they might raise children who don't dislike gays.
/Hypocracy at it's best.
No, I don't think it's hypocracy.. it's just opinion, like that which you're giving.
/3- You have never addressed the statistical facts behind how mistakes in our societies have made gays what they are...
I'll try it.
/You never addressed that 49% of gays have been molested as children in contrast to 2% of the hetrosexuals.
I have to nitpick, seeing as how those estimates are inherently flawed. How can you claim knowledge about something people don't talk about? I don't mean you, I mean the source of those statistics. They have to be looked at pretty harshly. I don't think they are even close to correct. I'm almost positive that more straights than that have been molested. Maybe gays are just more willing to admit it or even more prone to lie about it to begin with - the other way mind you, saying they have when they haven't because it gives them an excuse they'd otherwise flounder for. I'm just saying that those types of statistics can't be taken too seriously at this time.
/You never explained why is it that gays have problems with the other sex.
How do you assume this to be true? I have gay friends. I had sex with a gay girl once and we're STILL friends (i'm one of two guys she ever did it with). I'm just saying, "gays" don't necessarily have problems with the other sex. Of course some do, but I'm not sure how accurate it is as a generalization. Most gay people I've come in contact with don't really like anyone but other gay people. It's not the sex. In other words, my gay girl friend's best friend was a gay guy. I wonder if that's because so many straight people seem to HATE gay people. Ya think?
/You never told us the nature of what makes a gay gay.
If he could have answered that, he'd probably be the gay hero. Honestly I think sometimes its a physical thing and sometimes it's emotional damage. People get messed up with their sexual identities sometimes and it's hard for them to figure out how to deal with it.
/You never told us what makes it so hard for the gay to become straight.
Say you hate pepsi. I mean it makes you SICK. For instance I hate beer. I really can't stand alchohol in general. Not by choice, but by the fact that the smell makes me sick to my stomach. Can you see my analagy?
/You fist said, I like you, then went along to call me ugly just because I didn't fall in your cult.
Everyone should know you are very pretty.
/4- You never explained why would a gay person who feel opressed and discriminated against want to adopt a child and bring the child to the misery equation.
children are beautiful flores, you know this. people want love. children love them. they can love the children. you know I'll be some gay people would make awesome parents with the sheer love thing. maybe they have a lot to give but little outlet because of said ostracizement. They have a kid and take pride in that child and love them. Eh, it could go either way, but I'm not sure the gayness plays into this aspect really. Maybe I guess.
/You never explained why such an act doesn't have the children interest in heart.
That's hard to say flores.... maybe it does. I mean, children do need more than love, but love is an imperative and if someone has it to offer, what does their orientation matter?
/In my dictionary, those who choose to be neutral in the face of immorality are the essence of immorality.
That's pretty condescending, but as a moralist I suppose you are obliged to condescend?
