What Are Those Outer Boundaries You Claim Exist But Don't Identify?
Randwolf said:
What I meant, and I'm pretty sure you know what I was referring to, is there any inner boundary to reasonable behavior before it's considered out of bounds?
Actually, I didn't realize what you were referring to because it's a stupid question.
Let us start with this:
Just how stupid do you think women are?
Meaning, is any prudence unacceptable?
Where do you find all this straw? I know of some farmers in the midwest who wouldn't mind an opportunity to buy some of it.
The smallest bit of common sense somehow dictates that victims are responsible for the crimes committed against them?
This question makes absolutely no sense. Is there a word missing, somewhere?
I thought long and hard about what would be the most benign, most obvious bit of "prevention" that could be offered and this the best you can do?
Well, that's the problem you will encounter with anti-identification. That is, telling people, "No, that's not what I mean," only goes so far. At some point, people need to say what they actually mean, and prevention advocates won't even try to affirmatively assert that outer boundary.
Think about the most benign, obvious bit of prevention advice that could be offered, and ask yourself if you really believe women in general are too stupid to figure it out.
Nothing. There should be, and are, outer boundaries. Similar boundaries exist regards prevention of assault and murder. But I know better than to attempt to draw parallels or analogies while discussing this topic.
There should be, and are outer boundaries? Very well. Could you please advise us as to what they are?
Advocating common sense does not equate to believing people should live in fear, or that anyone is responsible for mayhem inflicted upon them by a criminal.
Presuming that women need to be instructed in common sense is demonstrably misogynistic.
And you might recall that juries have acquitted rapists before because the of the woman's attire. And you might recall that in Colorado a prosecutor
refused to charge a confessed rapist because he felt the woman deserved it.
Rather, it's a matter of choosing to believe that one's own actions can impact the probability of violence being propagated upon their bodies. Do you disagree?
I would only agree in a finite context. Without an outer boundary to this prevention theory, such a suggestion is problematic. As I have
noted:
• Most effective prevention technique against marital rape — Don't get married.
• Most effective prevention technique against date rape — Don't accept invitations for dates.
• Most effective way to prevent a man from thinking a woman is leading him on — Don't talk to men at all.
Now, pretty much all of us would accept that this is a bridge too far, but the statistical reality is that the "common sense" prevention techniques we've heard so much about in these discussions don't really do anything to address the
vast majority of rapes. Those three points above? They do.
Yet as much as people want to complain that this isn't what they mean, they simply
refuse to say what they actually do mean, thus leaving the question open.
The flip side, of course, being that the "common sense" prevention techniques we've heard so much about frequently presuppose that women are inherently stupid.
I mean, really, at one point we even have one of our prevention advocates comparing women to toddlers. Yeah, you know, just like you have to teach a baby to not burn itself on the stove, you have to teach women how to be aware of the immediate facts of their existence. Because, you know, apparently women wander around with no clue where they are, what they're doing, or who else is around.
And then, when people are pushing these advocates to establish an outer boundary, in waltzes the next guy to put the question back onto women, and pretend his annoyance at his own straw man.
Yeah, people find that offensive and misogynistic.
But, hey, we can set that aside:
"There should be, and are, outer boundaries."
Very well. What are they?