So ... which "family" notion are you referring to? The decay of parental consent? The decline of coverture? The rise of love and choice? Women out of the workplace? The sexual-slave marriage of Ernest R. Groves? The Long Decade, June Cleaver/Harriet Nelson family?
The importance of the family unit is well established; indeed, it is an anthropological and evolutionary outcome, not a political slogan. But there remains the question of how one defines family.
Parmalee has offered identifiable boundaries to the critique of the family, but we have no such markers from you.
It would behoove you, LG, to take some time to consider what your slogans and quips actually mean.
No, really. It would help you make a point if you had one to make in the first palce.
See, I think he has done so--though not necessarily within the confines of this thread, but certainly elsewhere (as in the thread from 2007 to which you linked). But he's making a concerted effort to bury this. And that's what it really bothering me right now.
I like to think I'm an open book: I wear my influences and my own take on, well, pretty much everything on my sleeve. (Is that how that expression goes? I have a lot of trouble expressions of this sort). Accordingly, I bare my biases and presuppositions--whether sane, sound, founded or completely unfounded. I just like honesty and straightforwardness, whether I like what I hear or not--and whether what I say makes me sound a nutter or not.
My take on "family" is unquestionably informed not only by personal experience (not good, obviously), as well as from a range of wordsmiths--from R.D. Laing to Wilhelm Reich to Paul Shepard to the Stanley Diamond, Pierre Clastres, David Graeber types. Take it or leave it, call me a nutter or a naive "idealist" (of sorts). I don't care.
I just wish LG would do the same. He needn't even type it all out again, just give us some links or copy-pasta. Context is everything, and without it we're bound to speculate til our faces turn blue. Red herring or not, that's just a rhetorical tool and the reality is these so-called "red herrings" are by no means extraneous bits or dead ends; they're ofttimes the missing puzzle piece which enable to reader at least a glimpse of the full picture.