at the expense of jeopardising one's escape, sure.
Another one is refraining from HED (heavy episodic drinking)
plenty more there
sorry to hear that you feel oppressed by the news that getting shit-faced in public is not a wise decision ....
:shrug:
Wow.. HED.. You haven't put much thought into women and drinking, have you?
Again, you are more likely to be raped by your intimate partner or spouse in your own home. Unless of course you are suggesting that women should simply never get drunk around any man at home or otherwise?
Wynn said:
No, you do.
It's the idea you are promoting that in order to be normal, a person must have sex, even if they don't want to have children. That puts people at the mercy of other people.
Wow..
No Wynn. I am promoting the thought that you are perfectly normal if you want to have sex, even if it is not for having children.
But ermm.. thanks for sharing how you feel about sex.
What is it like to argue with a runaway train?
Is that how you view yourself?
Martyrs tell themselves, and others, that.
Again, is that how you view women who see themselves as being free and equal?
Interesting..
Only in your twisted mind.
I have never once told you what to do.
Well obviously, to you, my mind is twisted. I think having sex and enjoying sex is normal.. I also believe that having sex without the intent of children is also normal and enjoyable. So yes, I guess to you, I am twisted.
But I am not selling having sex here. I am saying that women should not be deemed responsible for stopping rape. Considering how many times you have asked me if I would rather be raped.. Frankly, I think your grasping at straws here and trying to sink that little bit lower to sell yourself to those whose attention you seek.
You seem to think that your actions should have the consequences that you think they should have - regardless of reality.
There's a term for that kind of thinking.
No. I believe that stopping rape starts and ends with a rapist and that I should not be forced by prudish twats to live my life a certain way to fit into their ideal and try to sell it as "rape prevention". Unlike you, I don't get off on being controlled.
But I can see how
you could believe otherwise..
If you think that behaving in line with what Cosmo and similar media teach is a guarantee for a happy, liberated, superior life ...
Well, then that's what you think. You reap what you sow.
Cosmo?
No. You see Wynn, I was taught by my parents that I was equal and free and should never change myself to fit the whims of others or to fit into how they wished to view me. I was never taught to be meek and accepting of everything. I suppose you and I had different upbringing.
I don't even know what "Cosmo" is, let alone having read it. Because I don't need the media to tell me how to be free. If I did, then I would buy into the rape prevention psyche that you are obviously sold on.. that it is up to you to not be raped.. Which again, would only apply to someone who relied on others for their self worth and for expectations on how they should behave.
And in the meantime,
do you think that the best women can do is just behave as if there are no dangers anywhere, and thus endure the occasional rape?
Do you think it would be better for women to live like you?
I think women should be free to do whatever the hell they wish to do and should never be told that it is up to them to not be raped. But I get how you would be against that.