Again, no one here advocates it
You certainly are.
No one else is advocating "men" as a necessary hazard category in risk assessment
What we're doing is pointing out where your own argument naturally leads. I'm not saying that men should be considered a risk category, I'm saying your logic mandates that they must be for a woman to ever be absolved of responsibility in her own rape.
Yes, I have already pointed out the humour of you being solely responsible for advocating a position you don't even agree with ..
The fact that you say this isn't so only demonstrates your own inconsistency, not my advocacy of the notion. I'm pointing out how ridiculous your argument is by following it to its natural end.
what I am saying is that [/QUOTE]
But it is precisely
your position since no one else - at least no one with a professional interest in the issue - is working with it as a hazard category
No, it would be incredibly effective. If men are nowhere near women, then the amount of rapes occurring would decrease dramatically.
Which then begs the question, if it is so effective, how come it is only you talking about it (and not persons professionally involved)
:shrug:
One of the strategies you've endorsed was to shut up and run away from larger men who made unwanted advances.
Doesn't matter if a victim runs away from a larger woman or even a space alien for that matter.
It's still effective.
Not only is that gender-specific,
No its not.
Its not even species specific
but it's only a few short steps from women locking themselves in their homes to avoid all contact with men.
Once again, then the next question is why is it you who thinks this is the logical consequence and not any professional or even a great many assault survivors for that matter.
For one, "men" is not a non-existent category.
Granted.
However given that "men" as a category only exists in the imagination of persons advocating spurious arguments for the sake of saving face during online discussions, it operates in a dimension quite close to the non-existent.
You included it originally when you linked to Animal's website (one of them "professionals" you keep appealing to), which frames rape as being exclusively between small aggressive females and large amorous males.
if the only adjectives you could come up with are "large" and "amorous", its simply more evidence you don't read stuff
This is why all of its "prevention techniques" centered around the idea of running away;
Ditto above
the article was about pro's and con's of a variety of approaches you doofus
it even justified this by claiming that no woman can hope to defeat a larger man who wants to rape her. Secondly, as I've already said, excluding males from one's social calendar would be the most effective technique, since they are the gender that commits the majority of rapes. So your reasons for now excluding it are both contradictory of your earlier position as well as factually incorrect.
which then brings us back to why you are the only idiot who offers such so-called solutions.
What is that you have that a professional doesn't .... apart from alack of relevant skills and background information on the subject?
You've apparently forgotten how to read. I replied sensibly to each of the questions, and demonstrated that even still I am not doing "all that I can" to protect myself from harm. The point, which must have landed, otherwise you would have been responding to words I clearly did not write, is that sensible risk management isn't enough to prevent harm from befalling you, and it doesn't result in you being held responsible for that harm. Like I said, I'm not responsible for the drunk who hit me simply because I was out driving on St. Patrick's Day. And a rape victim isn't responsible for her attack simply because she was out drinking with friends.
and like I said, if you don't do those things, then you are not actually doing all that you can do to avoid an incident .... and as a further detail, your ability to correctly discern the appropriate situation to do and not do these things shows how you are fully capable of limiting such preventative measures (when you don't have the pending dilemma of saving face during online discussions of course )
Nope. But then, I'm not the one whose argument relies on the claim that hunter-gatherers agree with me.
well you did just make a claim about hunter-gatherer individuals being some sort of epitome of precautionary existence ... I guess that its now safe to assume that this point of yours, much like 90% of everything else, is simply a crock of shit that has no basis outside of your imagination
I am not, nor is anyone in this thread, anti-risk prevention. I am anti-blame-the-victim.
If that was the case, you wouldn't be blowing all this hot air about prevention being necessarily oppressive and wotnot
There are countless differences. The salient one to this discussion is that "such people" don't blame the victim for the rape.
Given that you have given countless references for persons blaming the victim
for no other reason than they are implementing/advocating a preventative strategy, this so called salient difference is coming more as a convenient double standard
A close second is their inability to accept the lie that women can reduce their risk of being raped to "virtually zero" through means other than locking oneself in the house--a strategy you advocated earlier in the thread.
Once again, you are talking about ideas that no one has brought to the discussion except you (which, again, is funny because apparently you don't agree with them)
I don't know who you're supposed to be arguing with, but it's certainly not me. I've never questioned anyone's ability to assess risk or take subsequent action. I've said that by choosing to drink with friends, a woman isn't choosing to risk rape and is therefore responsible for the attack.
I am just playing the stupidity of your own so called brilliant idea ....
I mean you do understand how not driving a car is the only logical effective end of all road safety campaigns, yes?
Your friend Animal certainly did, and you endorsed his philosophy wholeheartedly. Why the change?
feel free to reference this claim : warning ... it may involve you actually having to read stuff
Again, you yourself linked to a site that does exactly that.
yet you can't reference it outisde of your imagination for some mysterious reason ...
The second site you linked to offered sensible advice for women who believed they were entering potentially hazardous situations, but it falls far afield from your arguments for responsibility and prevention. (I'm guessing you simply googled and linked the second site without reading it, since it didn't reflect your views in any way whatsoever)
actually I followed the link from an
article titled "I won't live in fear" ... which tends to fly in the face of your ideas about preventative measures defaulting to fear and having logical consequences that obviously have no precedent outside of your fertile brain.
Sure
Notice how I didn't say they are responsible for not getting raped.
In other words, she's responsible for her own rape.
errr ... no
I believe I just said someone is responsible for indulging in drinking ...
If she's responsible for "assessing the concomitant risk factors associated with the behavior" (which you make a point of claiming are "socially marketed" clearly) then she is responsible for her own rape. There is no other logical conclusion.
lol
The only logical conclusion?
Well if she is assaulting herself I guess .....
I see you have a high regard for her personal safety
A woman shouldn't have to end her night early just because some douchebag is hanging all over her. She can complain to the bartender or bouncer and have him removed (in reality, anyone slobbering like that on a girl who isn't interested is almost always tossed before she has time to say no twice) or, failing that, find a new hangout.
yes
Quite a fine selection of suitable preventative measures (none of which, for the record, involved using "men" as a hazard category btw ... since the bartender and bouncer would probably be male).
But your inability to consistently follow through on ridiculous ideas you advocate aside, how is it that you think continuing to get shit-faced doesn't pose any pending hazard issues (since you have already indicated a bevy of other strategies brought to the fore for the obvious task of dealing with a hazard.)
To put it bluntly, if there is no problem, why advocate complaining to the bouncer or going to a different place.
And if there is a problem, what on earth makes you think proceeding to get shit faced isn't going to complicate issues down the track?
The question was why a right must be a cornerstone to be valid. I don't see how this is an answer to that.
I did just answer it.
If a right is not an essential thing expected to be extended to all people all the time (ie a "cornerstone"), you don't have a leverage point for protecting it.
IOW if getting shit faced is not an essential right, then you can't come back with the half-assed argument of an individual being oppressed due to others trying to change their behaviour that revolves around getting shit faced.
The more germane question would be why I think your brand of risk prevention is diametrically opposed to victim advocacy.
Lol
I don't.
I have said I don't.
I have linked sites that say they don't
I have cited references of people incorporating preventative strategies who say they don't.
I have challenged people like yourself to find any reference where I say anything other than "I don't"
Yet despite all this, you think I do.
You on the other hand, have clearly demonstrated that you do.
Which is why I ask,
why is it that you think risk prevention is diametrically opposed to victim advocacy?
It would also be a stupid question, since I've answered it half a hundred times already: You blame the victim for the crime. One cannot be an advocate and accuser. It's a conflict of interest.
But you can't find any quotes where I or anyone else says that.
On the other hand, I can find numerous quotes where you cite adopting a preventative measure being akin to rape apology, misogyny, etc etc
Which is why I ask,
why is it that you think risk prevention is diametrically opposed to victim advocacy?
But
you don't. You've said as much explicitly. Again:
"The notion of a rapist somehow engineering their own 10 step process or whatever of not raping someone is more absurd than a burglar engineering their own program of theft prevention"
and if you go to the next bit after that, beginning with "IOW ..." you can see exactly in what manner it becomes absurd
Another incomprehensible non-sequitur.
Yes
An apt description for a summary of your position on the subject ...
You absolutely have, many times, as I and others have showed you. So go ahead and answer the question.
You have one quote that appears that way when you edit out the next line after it. (Backed up by about 300 other references by myself to clarify exactly what is being said)
Aside from that, you have nothing.
You on the other hand practically come back to the same point in every single contribution to this thread.
Which is why I ask,
why is it that you think risk prevention is diametrically opposed to victim advocacy?
When did I say men abstaining from alcohol on the chance that one of them will commit rape while under its influence isn't absurd?
I wasn't aware that you did say that either ...
thats why I asked you :
Since you have no qualms about working with such a dichotomy however, perhaps you would like to explain why the notion of women abstaining from alcohol in order to surmount the issues of risk surrounding rape is absurd whereas men abstaining from alcohol for the same end isn't?
I asked you why you were being inconsistent; why you demanded that only women engage in this risk management, yet scoffed at the notion of a man doing so.
I only scoffed at it when it is made at the expense of something.
If you read the entire reference .. or even anything subsequent you would understand that.
Again:
"The notion of a rapist somehow engineering their own 10 step process or whatever of not raping someone is more absurd than a burglar engineering their own program of theft prevention"
and again, put the quote back in its context, and you have nothing.
It finds no precedent here, either, aside from your ludicrous straw men, which are built apparently for no other reason than to give you an excuse to scratch your obsessive itch to use the :shrug: emoticon. We do not say that there are no steps women can take to protect themselves. We do not say that one cannot advise and teach women while being an advocate for victims.
Your earlier ideas about the logical implications of prevention clearly suggest you do have issues with the double pronged approach of advocacy and prevention ... or at the very least, your inability to entertain "alcohol" as a hazard category establishes a precedent for your views being markedly distinct from those in the professional arena ...
We say you cannot be, because your concept of "rape prevention" is warped, and your concept of "risk management" makes it impossible for the woman to absolve herself of responsibility without taking an extreme measure such as avoiding drinking in public.
and once again, perhaps that would make sense if you could explain how HED (heavy episodic drinking) is a cornerstone of your personal liberty.
Will you ever learn what irony is?
Hint: It's not like rain on your wedding day.
"Irony is wasted on the stupid"
:shrug:
I've seen two sites that you've linked to. One offered sensible advice without suggesting that the woman could prevent rape from occurring, while the other advised women to avoid arguing with men lest they get raped in a dark parking lot for their trouble.
Your inability to find references from websites to support your ideas aside, the one that you concur to be sensible is apparently doing something that is not allowed in your books - establishing "alcohol" as a hazard category while making the great blunder of ignoring the so-called obvious one of "man".
Are we to assume that by your own admission, your ideas are not sensible?
I would suggest the same to you, except I already know that you don't care. This really is all about ego defense for you. That, and some form of mental disorder. (the shrugs have to be a tick of some sort)
The problem is that I am not the one having difficulty explaining why my views are not incorporated into professional strategies to deal with the problem of rape.