Totally, I personally use to feel not good enough. I wasn’t enough for him, didn’t satisfy him, so he needed to see better. If you think about it, it is horrible to think that your guy is not fulfilled by having 100% genuine sex with you, but is buy watching somebody else have sex - he is not involved in that sex only a visual thing - that is very offensive to me. Actually the more I think about it, the more it pisses me off. If porn needs to be in an relationship, then it needs to be out in the open, not hidden, otherwise it causes arguments, feel of rejection and hate. Men do not understand how it makes some women feel, how would they feel if all of sudden all women became obsessed with porn but just to drool other the man, and making the bf feel that they couldn’t fulfil their gfs sex needs, they needed porn just to finish them off - its not nice. My bf was very insulted once when I whipped out a vibrator to finish myself off (sorry to be so crude). Maybe all women should do this to make men feel inadequate
Pornography and Monogamous Relationships...
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Totally, I personally use to feel not good enough. I wasn’t enough for him, didn’t satisfy him, so he needed to see better. If you think about it, it is horrible to think that your guy is not fulfilled by having 100% genuine sex with you, but is buy watching somebody else have sex - he is not involved in that sex only a visual thing - that is very offensive to me. Actually the more I think about it, the more it pisses me off. If porn needs to be in an relationship, then it needs to be out in the open, not hidden, otherwise it causes arguments, feel of rejection and hate. Men do not understand how it makes some women feel, how would they feel if all of sudden all women became obsessed with porn but just to drool other the man, and making the bf feel that they couldn’t fulfil their gfs sex needs, they needed porn just to finish them off - its not nice. My bf was very insulted once when I whipped out a vibrator to finish myself off (sorry to be so crude). Maybe all women should do this to make men feel inadequate
If a man's sex partner was as hot n' sexy as his imagination, and if she was as responsive as his own hand, then he wouldn't want to watch porno or to have to masturbate.
It's all the woman's fault! ..which is quite usual in marriages these days. Back in the old days, when the man wanted to fuck, he just pointed to the bed and the obedient little wife floppy down and spread her legs. Now? She wants to talk about something, for god's sake!
Baron Max
It's all the woman's fault! ..which is quite usual in marriages these days. Back in the old days, when the man wanted to fuck, he just pointed to the bed and the obedient little wife floppy down and spread her legs. Now? She wants to talk about something, for god's sake!
Baron Max
So if your not hot and sexy and your not a nymphomaniac, its your fault if your man then feels he need to watch porn. " sorry babes, I knows my boobs arent as big as that porn queen there so why don’t you got watch hers jiggling for a couple of hours", How insulting!!
Life's a bitch, ain't it? And it's worse if you're a woman and not hot n' sexy and willing.
Baron Max
Yeah it is Baron.........esp when a woman starts aging! My days of hot and sexy are getting less and less. In a couple weeks I will be 38 :bawl:
Well good job im sexy and willing
Well, then you shouldn't be complaining! And, more to the point, your bf shouldn't be watching porno and masturbating ....he should be too tired to watch, and much, much too sated to masturbate.
So, ....what are you doing wrong?
Baron Max
And your bf will turn more and more to the young, hot, sexy women on the porno movies. And you should be happy about that ....he could turn to the streets to find real women who are young, hot, sexy and willing!
Hey, Shorty, have you considered handcuffing him to the bed?
Baron Max
I watch porn with my bf occasionally, for inspiriation and ammusment, but we have a very good active sex life - I was moaning more about my ex, who use to watch it secretely all the time, I don’t know what I was doing wrong there, maybe he was watching it out of habbit or cause he was a pervy bastard, either of the one. I was also standing up for women out there who dont agree with it cause I understand there point of view!
And your bf will turn more and more to the young, hot, sexy women on the porno movies. And you should be happy about that ....he could turn to the streets to find real women who are young, hot, sexy and willing!
Hey, Shorty, have you considered handcuffing him to the bed?
Baron Max
awwwwwwwwwww is that your way of making me feel better :itold:
You need a good :spank::
If a man, a woman's sex partner, is sexually sated, then he won't be watching porno ............................unless, of course, he's looking for someone younger, hotter and sexier.
If a man can get a hard-on from watching porno, but not get one while watching his girlfriend, then the girlfriend is in big, big trouble!
Baron Max
But then why be with this women if she cant satisfy you? Why not go and find the younger sexy siren to be with?
Ohhhhhhhh you can't get to me Baron cuz I know you LUV ME
...LOL! And so you want me to start lying now??? ...LOL!
Baron Max
I will answer!! Because the man isn't hot enough himself to get the younger sexy siren. Instead he just drools over her and makes his wife feel like crap!
Plus this young sexy siren isn't going to cook and clean and take care of his a$$. Also she wants a hunk herself!
Convienence! He hasn't had a good opportunity to find someone hotter, sexier and more willing, that's all. Look at the divorce rates ...over 50%. Doesn't that tell you something?
But don't forget ....a pussy in hand is better than a pussy in the bushes! ...or something like that?
Baron Max
Hasny got the opportunity to find aything sexier because hes watching too much porn or as Shorty_37 said "too ugly to get anything sexier"!