1. She should have told the man about the surgery before the marriage.
Cosmetic surgery is much more common in the USA. How many Americans bother to tell their fiance/fiancee that they had it?
2. She should have thought about his reaction to the way the baby would look.
Frankly I don't understand what qualifies that baby as "ugly." They only look "cute" to their parents, who have in instinct to feel that way or the species would become extinct.
In any case, there's no guarantee that a bad-looking person will have a bad-looking child, or vice versa. The genes of both parents combine and you have no idea what you're going to get.
Does anyone know if they have child support in China?
China has so much socialism that it makes the People's Republic of Europe look like a libertarian paradise. I don't think they let babies starve to death like they did under Mao's astoundingly incompetent leadership.
Beauty is, indeed, in the eye of the beholder. Sure there are a few people with such classic bone structure, etc., that they appear "beautiful" to almost everyone. But the average person has a few features which look average to most of us, look downright ugly to a few, and at the other extreme there are a few who think they're utterly gorgeous.
I thought my high school girlfriend was a doll. After we broke up people came up to me quietly and admitted that almost everyone else in the school thought she was butt-ugly.
All hail male chauvinism!
Chauvinisme is a French word. Maybe it's time to replace it with one from Chinese.
My point exactly. Sure, deformed features, extreme asymmetry, wounds, many birth defects, etc., look "ugly" to most of us. But as I said, for the vast majority of the population, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe some lady has a few features that most men don't appreciate, but there are a few guys out there who will swoon over them. And the same is true in the other direction, although it's an (unproven) cliche that women don't care about looks quite as much as men do.
Do wrinkles make us ugly?
Wrinkles are a sign of age so an old, wrinkled person may not appear attractive to a very young person. But at my age we all have wrinkles so we don't notice them any more.
Considering the male to female ratio in China, even the ugliest women should have it made.
I understand that prostitution is a very lucrative career over there, for this very reason: men can't get dates. Of course it's illegal so the girls have to pay off the cops. Still, from my contact with Chinese culture (I had a Chinese girlfriend for a couple of years and with my pidgin Mandarin I got to know her family), I would very strongly guess that some parents with daughters might decide that they've got a gold mine in the bassinet and make the most of it.
So what was she really doing (Gold Digging) or something? She wasn't honest with the man she married. He should have had the opportunity to say no to the marriage before it happened and she had an ugly kid.
Life just isn't the same in China, especially now under their unique hybrid Confucian/Marxist culture. You can't apply Western standards when you try to understand how things work over there.
What do you think Angelina Jolie looked like as an infant?
How about Jennifer Lopez? She was a fabulously beautiful Latina. Now she's got all that anglicizing surgery and she looks positively ordinary.
What a load of crap, wynn.
Good grief! My wife keeps sending my name in to the Guinness Book of Records as The Man Who Was Born Without The Enzyme To Digest Sarcasm. I never get it when other people do it, and when I try to do it nobody gets it.
But even I could see that Wynn was being sarcastic. Give the poor lady a break! Get a prescription for sarcasm pills! They don't work on me but they might help you.