Would you ever create THE ultimate place of torture, where there is agonizing pain, where there is wailing and gnashing of teeth all for your child if they do not obey,
yes, it is called No-T.V...just turn of your TV when the kids are into it and see how much wailing and gnashing of teeth they do..
God's design/threat of hell is nothing but psychological control in a sense,
that wording tells me it is mans doing not Gods..i do not believe that God says OBEY or be sent to hell, i think that is Mans Interpretation..
now i would believe God telling us if we don't listen to him we will go to hell, not because God is the one making the decision to send us to hell, but as a result of our own actions, its like God is there whispering in our ear, giving us advice as to the best ways to go, it is our failure if we do not listen to him and end up in hell,not Gods.
we make our own decisions and suffer the consequences of those decisions,
God gave us the ability to choose,and he offers us a choice,(listen to him or not) he knows that he does not have to punish us if we don't listen to him, because we do a much better job of punishing ourselves..
all the while trying to hide behind, "but you have a choice". What is a choice for you may be completely different for someone else. Some might be okay with God being a bully and a God who can make Saddam look like Cinderella- but I'll just say if there ever was a God, this would be the world's worse picture of a loving God ever.
so why is it when a description of God comes up that does not line up with that idea of God, it gets argued with and dismissed cause it doesn't line up with a 'bullying God'?
my own spin..
Man makes it about 'be afraid' in an attempt to control others,
I believe God does not want you to believe because you are afraid..would you want to stay with someone who beats on you all the time?
i also can see in real life how many ppl mistake fear as respect, (if i can make him afraid of me he will show me respect) this is the wrong kind of respect, I do not want ppl to respect me if they are afraid of me, i would never be able to trust them knowing that they were just kissing my butt..
You could just open any ole book and let the Holy Spirit do its magic work and reveal what it chooses to show you. Be it a comic book, newspaper, The Three Little Pigs, etc...
Then God spake unto the religions of the world and said "Behave or I will huff, and I will puff,and I will blow your house down."
There is no way in hell I'd ever believe this Christian God to be anything but a true jerk.
your source being just the bible?
and i often correlate a teenagers relationship with their fathers as basically the same as ours is to God..we often blame him and call him names when it is our own decisions that we are fighting..
Then why the heck would you desire that and be okay with that in the Biblical God?
because the biblical God is not all there is to God.