Both men and women have equal stakes in the fates of their children. The implication that men have no say because babies come out of females is as offensive and wrong as it is inane.
Do you think a man who forces a woman to get pregnant by tampering with her birth control or uses fear and violence to coerce her into sex without contraception should have a say?
Is that when the child becomes solely his since he wanted it more or enough to rape and/or beat a woman into submission?
Should a rapist have "equal stakes" in the fate of the children or pregnancies that result from the rape?
You don't see why American men might care about American abortion laws? You don't see how such directly affects them, their spouses/girlfriends/whatevers, their family planning, their children?
Because I'm not seeing much mystery, there. Are men not also parents?
Of course they are. But this subject is about rape.
Should rapists care about American Abortion Laws? Do you think it affects their family planning with their victims?
Do you deem a rapist a parent of their victim's child? Should they have a say over whether their victim aborts the child or not?
Really, it isn't that much of a mystery, is it?
Don't be absurd. There is no way for anyone - male or female - to be "completely uninvolved" in national legislation determining the availability of abortion. Everyone has a direct stake in that, even if the female one is more immediately pressing.
Let us imagine you live in, say, California for example. Do you have a stake in whether a rape victim from New York aborts the pregnancy that resulted from the rape?
It is something that concerns men, and rightly so. Are men not also parents? Does the fact of a pregnancy not necessarily imply that a man is already "concerned?" Or does the male concern with family end when he blows his load?
If a man rapes a woman and she falls pregnant, or if he coerces her or abuses her into not using contraception or tampers with her contraception along with the abuse, do you think he has a right to be concerned with her choice to end the pregnancy she did not want?
Do you think you should have a say in whether she has access to it or not?
This thread is a bunch of Americans discussing American abortion legislation. Which is to say that it is not a good platform for browbeating Americans into silence by invoking cultural autonomy or relativism or whatever. In those terms, you're the one who lacks standing. Nothing directly at issue in this thread will ever affect you unless you decide to move to the USA.
Really? VI is suddenly American now?
Not that such is a respectable endeavour even when targetted appropriately. Especially from a mod - you are still a mod, aren't you? And yet you spend all your energy on personal crusades, employing troll tactics. You're an embarassment.
Your opinion of me aside, and really, it breaks my heart that you feel that way, can you point to me where in the OP it states that this thread is about American men and abortion laws in America and how it and why you seem to think this is about American couples instead of abortion being made available to rape victims and the hypocrisy involved in the debate when rape comes into play? Because at this point, I, as a moderator, could very well call you a troll for refusing to stick to the topic of this thread as stated clearly in the OP and even in the title of this thread and point out that your personal insults are against the rules of this site. So step wisely little man.