John99 said:Well there goes the "intelligent discussion"
He's very creative, though. I LOVE THIS!
John99 said:Well there goes the "intelligent discussion"
Let me get this straight... you think lying to your son is a good way to teach him moral behaviour? :bugeye:So what do you all think about the experiment to see if there is use for religion? Do you think it will work?
of that whole post..this was the only advice you had to offer..Are you for real?
What the fuck is wrong with you people?
We are talking about a nine years old child with a serious problem. What are you suggesting that he sould do?
Make a life size image of Jesus and wait for him to perform a miracle?
To make him memorise the Bible out loud?
Oh, may be he is "possessed", why don't you tie boy to a bed hand a help with an exorcism.
Wait no, he should purify him with fire, then make him kiss a blood crying Mary statue thousand times a day.
This is fucking unbelievable. And the most unbelievable part is that you religious freaks demanding any kind of respect. And blaming atheists of being full of hatred. You are so disgusting and infuriating, all of you deserve to be hated. You are poisonous and lack the slightest respect or love for human life.
You all should be banned by law from aproaching any human being under 21, let alone allowed to have any children of your own.
the rest was just an emotion outburst..given the choice..i would prefer jesus over you..He needs hard rock patience and serious therapy.
Thanks, everything you said is how I intend to proceed and I need to think some more on it.
But, for now we are going to set up this experiment. If we move on it, it will be the toughest solution to implement, especially for me.
Wow! He already has manipulating behavior and you want to correct this with your own manipulating behavior. Does this make sense? You’re going to con him into believing something you want him to believe as true to control him. Present reality the way you want him to see it rather than the way it really is.
He needed boundaries and he needed someone to care enough about him to create those boundaries and stick with them.
Because it's fake? Ever dated a girl who was educated in a convent? Your daughter is gonna fuck like a steam train picking up passengers when she realises you lied to her.
She'll fuck anybody she thinks is telling her the truth. Many won't be. She's gonna fuck a load of creeps 'cos you lied to her, dad.
Maybe your lies will turn your son into a rent boy. But hell, they're your kids, so do it, and be sure to tell us how it works out.
Did you edit your last post because you finally figured it out? It’s in his photo album.
It says "Lori_7 God told me to tell you he doesn’t speak to you." I thought it was funnier than hell...:mufc:
Thumbs up, smart one.
Because it's fake? Ever dated a girl who was educated in a convent? Your daughter is gonna fuck like a steam train picking up passengers when she realises you lied to her.
She'll fuck anybody she thinks is telling her the truth. Many won't be. She's gonna fuck a load of creeps 'cos you lied to her, dad.
Maybe your lies will turn your son into a rent boy. But hell, they're your kids, so do it, and be sure to tell us how it works out.
As you have hinted, we can't do that anymore. All we can do is repeatedly punish over and over using a host of things, and encourage with the same propaganda to our son and hope that he will make a better decision. But, he knows he doesn't have to because he doesn't care about any punishment. It's only a minor and temporary inconvenience to him. He's very smart and even even manipulates the teachers to send him home. If he wants a day off, he knows just what he needs to do to do it and not get in too much trouble. The difference between my son and daughter (who is perfectly healthy) is that I brought her up with Christian teaching.
Does God give that freedom of choice...or does secular society give that freedom?Only freedom to be what you want to be and the outcomes of the exercising of that freedom.
If it hasn't already been suggested, perhaps a well qualified and experienced behavioral child psychologist will have some suggestions. Scarring a child with images of Hell could do a lot of emotional damage which may, in the future, manifest itself in all sorts of unknown ways. From being scared to explore ideas to becoming a suicide bomber. Or it could be OK.
I personally am not sure that kids are supposed to behave ALL the time. To some degree it's perfectly normal.
If it were me, I'd try full contact martial arts and other contact sports. I know a cage-fighter who has a really bad temper, but over the years has learned not to drink any alcohol and lives to cage fight (which he makes pretty good money at). I'm not suggesting your son will become a cage fighter, but that he may need an outlet.
of that whole post..this was the only advice you had to offer..
the rest was just an emotion outburst..given the choice..i would prefer jesus over you..
Well there goes the "intelligent discussion"
succumb to your fears much?
this is actually a minority scenario ,it does not apply to every one in this situation..