every good father punishes disobediant children.
Are you a father Edgar? Not once in my daughters 4 years of life, (near 4 years), have i punished her in any way, shape or form. I have not told her off, raised my voice at her or done anything that could be construed as 'punishment'.
Now let's see how she is...
Not once has she done anything naughty, not once does she nag, complain, get upset, (unless she falls over and hurts herself). She was speaking at 4 months old and is the happiest child i have ever seen. She comes in to where im sitting, typing on this forum and says: "Stand up dad." I do so and she hugs me and says "I love you so so so so much dad."
My wifes sisters children are the nastiest, naughtiest, most acting-up, causing mischief children i know. She has and constantly punishes them when they do bad things and it only makes them worse.
The one problem I believe i have in regards to my daughter is my over-protectiveness of her. Needless to say she was always a little bit more shy than most kids her age but that's understandable. God killed my other child, so i'm bound to be slightly over-protective.
In summary i state every good father shows true love and compassion. He forgives the wrong-doings of his children. Instead of punishment he can sit down and explain in a pleasant and loving manner why doing such a thing is wrong. By the same method of controlling his children with fear and petty threats that god does, many human parents do the same. "Do this or you're grounded for a month", and so on. This is wrong, pointless, achieves nothing but rebellion and is in no way associated to love. If you look on the grand scale we're not being threatened with a months grounding, instead being threatened with ETERNITY in hell. That means- forever, which means no forgiveness will ever come. A loving father will always forgive his children- whether they ask for forgiveness or not.