It's what people believe in. Everyone has different beliefs. And how we grew up to believe it. Most of us, I assume, have grown up to believe in love, marriage, a deep connection with a special partner. But with swaping, it goes against
your belief (assuming you grew up that way), so therefore your belief may change. It may seem wrong to some of swaping, but it is all in what one believes and how one was raised.
As for me, in marriage, I would assumely fall in love, serious type, and not go for swapping. UNless I was in a playful marriage.
But in love, I believe it's natural, or ok, to say "oh, I would fuck her, she's hot, but I love my girl so I can't do that."
To me, love is something you want to
believe in, because it feels good. That is what I believe I learned in life.
Why do people fall in love even if others abuse them? And treat them wrong? It is because they
believe in making the person better and to better themselves. You notice how people in love, it's
hard for them to give up They believe in a better life they can make, I hope you understand where I am going. As in saying,"I'm just a guy who loved the woman you're supposed to be."
Personally I don't believe in giving consent to my girl to go fuck someone else. It's disrespectful, it's like not giving a crap about you and your relationship. But it would have to be
my girl, if it is just some fling for some fun, that's fine with me
. Prbly won't see her again or other reasons, not marriage material.
But sooner or later people begin to believe in a deeper love, to never be lonely and to sepnd a life with someone you really care about. Sounds good? Well it does to moi!
OK for others, maybe in for the fun, or
their view on love to have many partners, but what if one is alone in the end? Or maybe if your partners all stay together till the end, then that is fine, WHICHEVER scenario,
as long as you are happy in life.
Why do people say that they can't explain love???
Ever wonder why? I hope people agree with my opinion on this matter,
love is what the person believes it to be , therefore you can't come up with a universal definition for it Squid, btw stop arguing over what all you people think or calling it brainwashing or whatever!!!
It is solely up to you to know completely what love is, to you in your life. I side with Chosen's view, because I believe in that kind of love or special connection at that level, however I view it, and I believe it could make me maybe the happiest person in the world, all because I believe in that kind of love and I hope I will find it someday. Of course there are complications and arguements, blah blah, my believe in love is not the perfect one, but the better you want/believe in something, the better it is right??
Just so it makes my life happy...
That is why it is what
you believe it is. Therefore the defintion of love is in you, your
'heart.' Just as God, either you believe in Him in this way, that way, or you don't. :bugeye: