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Originally posted by Xev
Chosen:
Kindly show where Squid posted that all there is to life is sex.
Coming from you, Don Juan, such criticism is a bit much.
Well, ok ok, he said monogamy was silly...so I assumed, he can shoot me down for it later, if I'm wrong
Why the equation of monogamy and "true love"?
Monogamy is a very serious thing. Look at the sky-rocketing
divorce rates.
Most people don't understand and know what love is.
Love is a conglomeration of a variety of other emotions. To name a few would be trust, respect, caring, communication, happiness, pleasure, etc.
You don't have one of those, it's not love.
Take this example, idiots go around saying...
"I love my gf, but I saw this one hot-chick and I want to fuck the hell out of her."
The dating world is for weeding out potential mates and making your decision.
In the LTR (Long term relationship) world, you start to build a special kind of friendship, you are taking a chance with this person.
Now, it isn't respectful to fuck around with someone you love, to think about others while you are supposedly "in love" with another. True love is shared by the few, the proud, and the special amount of individuals. It takes alot of faith in one another to pull it off. It's a big risk also on the amount of faith and trust you put on the other, one person fucks up it's simply over.
Imagine buying gifts for your loved one, taking care of them while they are sick, making a big fancy dinner, etc. etc.
On a simple first date, this would be chump behavior (infatuation), people make the mistake of "loopholing" the idea of
attraction and
attachment. I could elaborate on the whole loophole idea but....to lazy