and I'm begging you to do this also.
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- Thread starter Orleander
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and I'm begging you to do this also.
Careful darksidzz...you might have James R misinterpret your statement as being derogatory towards women and give you an infraction.
ROFL. Very subtle...like most 'women speak'.
"Whatever": womanese for '#@$%# you!' This statement is made for when the woman has been wittingly verbally painted into a corner and has no other witty retort.
HEY BARON not all women are........I AM NEITHER......I have
never been a USER in my life, if anything I have always had more
and contributed more in my relationships.
Well, that depends. If she's really hot, got nice tits and a nice ass, then I wouldn't judge her cheating as a bad thing! But if she's fat and ugly, well, ....
Baron Max
Yes, but who really cares? She's not going to sleep with him again, so he doesn't bear the risk of disease and the relationship is over, so Stud 1 can't be negatively affected by her actions. You have a limited number of times to get laid in your life, so why ruin an opportunity just on the basis of some obscure social point?
I'm biased, perhaps. I really don't understand the hysteria over infidelity -- why people become violent, why they are so absurdly hurt by it. The times that men have cheated on me or tried to cheat on me were more comical than anything else.
Beyond that, I just don't understand the need to accumulate sexual partners.
Orleander:
No offense, luv, but you are a bit stupid for asking internet nerds to judge your sex life. Very few of the posters here have anything resembling sexual experience, why would you even tempt fate?
Baron Max:
This has been known to backfire....
The number of years you're attractive, which is generally about 15-20 depending on your genetics and how well you take care of yourself, divided by how much time you spend doing things other than getting laid, multiplied by how much of a tramp you are, with various other coefficiants and variables.
I pray that I never have the misfortune of dating someone who isn't bothered by infedelity, like yourself.
Yeah, call me a little bitch should I ever get upset that a person I thought I cared about breaks a committment and agreement to be with only me. How childish of me?
Sounds like you really know how to pick your men huh?
:roflmao:
What exactly is 'trying' to cheat?
This is quite humorous coming from someone who's been an 'internet nerd' member of this site since '02. Nice stereotyping there, toots.
Wow, someone's a bit defensive. Why do you care what I think?
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"This is quite humorous coming from someone who's been an 'internet nerd' member of this site since '02. Nice stereotyping there, toots."
I think you are trying to accuse me of hypocrisy, not stereotyping.
And you should not ask my advice on sexual matters: I spent the last two nights playing Dungeons and Dragons, and the Star Wars roleplaying game.
Hence the advice...not to ask advice.
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"This is quite humorous coming from someone who's been an 'internet nerd' member of this site since '02. Nice stereotyping there, toots."
I think you are trying to accuse me of hypocrisy, not stereotyping.
And you should not ask my advice on sexual matters: I spent the last two nights playing Dungeons and Dragons, and the Star Wars roleplaying game.
Hence the advice...not to ask advice.
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If you're referring to me, how did you interpret being defensive from just normal responses to your statements?
I was just merely stating that since cheating doesnt seem to bother you, that you don't sound very human; whether meaning that you have no problem cheating on somebody, or you have no problem with someone cheating on you.
As for the internet nerd comment, who knows what the backgrounds of the members are here? For all we know, you could be getting laid less than any of us. You seem to spend plenty of time on here as well.
So it was a stereotypical comment. I'm not saying it in a defensive fashion whatsoever, just as a matter of fact.
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Ok. Fair enough. That clears it up. Sorry for the misunderstanding.Xev said:
mikenostic:
This -- your assumption that I will call you names, the reference to a diety, the snide tone, the emotionally charged language seems out of place considering that neigher of us has any personal relation.
Who says it doesn't bother me? I said I didn't understand the hysteria over infidelity.
I do sound cold, but there is a reason for that.
"Sounds like you really know how to pick your men huh?"
No shit, eh? But I've never cheated on them, at least.
"What exactly is 'trying' to cheat?"
When your boyfriend sends flowers to a girl on Valentines day, tries to persuade her to leave her boyfriend, talks to her for hours when she's had a fight with said boyfriend, one would think that he's trying to woo that girl.
This -- your assumption that I will call you names, the reference to a diety, the snide tone, the emotionally charged language seems out of place considering that neigher of us has any personal relation.
Who says it doesn't bother me? I said I didn't understand the hysteria over infidelity.
I do sound cold, but there is a reason for that.
"Sounds like you really know how to pick your men huh?"
No shit, eh? But I've never cheated on them, at least.
"What exactly is 'trying' to cheat?"
When your boyfriend sends flowers to a girl on Valentines day, tries to persuade her to leave her boyfriend, talks to her for hours when she's had a fight with said boyfriend, one would think that he's trying to woo that girl.
Nope. I was not trolling with that comment. I was just stating the obvious; from what I had interpreted from your statement, HOWEVER....
that apology should have cleared it up. But I'll try to be clearer; I misunderstood your initial comments and the last statement you made about D&D cleared it up.me said:
Here's one I still don't understand. If you've ever been hurt by someone cheating on you, then I don't see why you don't understand the hysteria caused by it. Or do you just mean all the crazy shit that people do over infidelity?
See above. A total misunderstanding.
"What exactly is 'trying' to cheat?"
Yeah, that would be considered trying to cheat. How did you find out about it?
And better yet, he didn't use those same pathetic game tactics on you, did he? :roflmao:
Bells
Staff member
Betrayal. If you are committed to someone in a relationship, taking yourself out of the meat market due to that relationship, sharing everything about yourself to the other, and you find out the other cheated, it is a betrayal and it can and does hurt. Some people become consumed by it afterwards and never feel able to trust again.
The wounded party?
In that particular case no, in others however...
Yeah? See below.
Obscure social point?
More like personal perceptions.
Which are worth "ruining an opportunity over".
(Sometimes a good joke is worth ruining the opportunity... oops)
I agree that at times it can be comical.
It depends how much of yourself you've invested in the relationship.
D'accord.
On the other hand it did provide an interesting thread.
And we're not all "just" internet nerds...
Only 15-20?
*raucous belly laugh*
The other coefficients variables outweigh the "taking care of yourself", by a long shot.
Yes you were cheating. If you don't love the person, you should have told them that before you slept with someone else.
If you broke it off after you cheated, you still cheated unless you broke it off before hand. In fact, if you make a deal like "I won't cheat" and you cheat, then you are a cheater, nuff said.