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Madanthonywayne said:
Live and let live. Stop the jihad. Get a life.
Yes, let us presume that atheism exists in a vacuum, that it developed as this strange and antagonistic symptom of the Universe that, like flatulence, we all must suffer with quiet dignity.
The problem I have with this sort of note to the atheists is that it presumes any number of inappropriate things.
If somebody sneezes? One can certainly wish a person health. "Gesundheit," for instance. God bless you? Well, let's look at it both ways: As a matter of custom, one presumes to put in front of another a potentially problematic assertion. As a matter of faith, it's just rude.
For a Christian to say to another of the faith, "God bless you", that's all well and fine. But if he says it to someone else, there might be a question. My last religion was witchcraft; my friends of the Craft greet one another with the expression, "Merry meet." We offer blessings with the words, "Blessed be". And we sometimes plead abstractly or literally with the phrase, "Goddess grant".
If I say those things to modern pagans, all is well and fine. But treating other people that way as a matter of custom is regarded as intrusive and even threatening. Ah-choo! "God bless you." Oh, thank you. Ah-choo! "Goddess grant"? I might as well say, "Allahu akbar", or "By Satan's balls!" The atheist might look at it just the same as any other shared religious sentiment, but for those who have spent years reserving their faith expressions so as not to offend common presumption, it doesn't seem that atheists who object to the phrase "God bless you" are asking people to behave any way we haven't been asking people to behave for a while now.
As JDawg noted, "It's actually the other way around". But this is a strange habit in conservative life: History only begins when it can no longer be ignored. That is, for decades, at least, atheists have been asserting more and more firmly their right to be treated equally, to not have to hide in the closet, to not have to fake through toasts, seasonal blessings, and office parties. And in the off years, it's enough to remind them that they're making a spectacle of themselves, as if we would prefer they reflect something of the infamous polite-Brit stereotype. But when matters finally reach the level of public discussion, it's as if it's suddenly out of the blue. "Stop your atheist jihad!" plead the weary persecutors. "Live and let
live, after all!"
And what's the big fucking deal about nativity scenes? Well, frankly, after
centuries in which decent people have had to suffer with a bunch of zealous prigs, the big fucking deal is that Christians see
equality as some sort of hateful discrimination, as if they are suddenly suffering some great injustice by the proposition of being treated equally. This faith, which is largely a discommoding rabble of extroverted insecurity, has long enjoyed the presumption of the law. Standards are not invoked logically, but derived from faith. Every evolving social custom seems to collide in some way with Christianity. And you know what? We
get it. Christians have been in charge in the Western world. When torturing witches, selling Heaven, hauling the women half-naked through snowy streets, stacking stones on old men, advocating slavery, denigrating women, and even marching off to righteous war, common sense and decency have always had to answer Christian faith, not the other way around. If you
really need to ask how someone else's superstitions affect a person, just remember that it's other people's superstitions that need to be assuaged before certain of your neighbors will be treated decently and fairly.
Christians have burned books and records, coordinated and advocated the forces of censorship. All customs are expected to undergo Christian review; the supreme law of the land in the United States is insufficient insofar as any developing custom can be shot down at the ballot box on the basis of superstition. So perhaps reminders of divisive politics and supremacist theology don't hurt those who sympathize with such tyranny, but they
are harmful to others. We've taken a religious holiday and made our economy so dependent on it that eliminating the imbalance threatens our quality of life. So people like your Muslim associate have two choices:
get used to Christian dominance, or pitch a fit about it. And anyone who has tried already recognizes that there's no point in pitching a fit about it: Ask nicely, no reply; ask more firmly, no reply; interrupt to make the point, and be told that you're rude; shout, and people will ask who you think will listen to you if all you can do is yell at them. I celebrate Christmas. Does this mean I'm converting to Christianity? No. Rather, it means that it's not worth alienating my entire family in order to get out of a stupid ritual designed to remind people to stop, smell the roses, and be nice to one another from time to time. Fuck, if the superstition was worth anything, why would they need to be reminded at the same goddamn time every goddamn year?
I'm just as critical of people seeking to inject religion into a science class as I am of atheist busybodies trying to keep anyone from saying "God". How does a word harm you? Stop with the idiotic, expensive, and divisive lawsuits. If you don't want to say "under God", then don't say it. Big fuckin' deal.
And I'm just as critical of people seeking to make intellect-free justifications for poor conduct as I am of the idiots who conduct themselves so poorly. If you are unaware of the sociopolitical power of a mere "word" like God, then no wonder you're confused. Think of how many people a word like "fuck" offends. What's the fucking problem? It's just a
word. So when we measure a word like God, that is a symbol of everything from genocide and rape to the slavery of salvation—especially when the word is defined by a book whose believers can't even treat it as a straight read—we should not be surprised to find that it is nothing more than a buzzword for an overblown social club with a well-crafted central assertion, and whose purpose is nothing more than to be an otherwise dead weight dragging humanity down while providing the elite, the accepted, the elect, with a club to beat other people over the head.
Nobody ever tried to tell me I couldn't listen to heavy metal in the name of Fuck. It wasn't Fucking morals that prevented me from buying a goddamn King Diamond album when I was seventeen. It wasn't some lady's sense of Fuck in the 1990s that led to the Salem-Keizer (Oregon) PTA arguing over whether a Robert McCammon novel (
Demon Walk) should be allowed in the school library, and she certainly wasn't arguing that the presence of a character in the story called Demon offended her fucking Fuck. It wasn't a bunch of dumb Fuckers who asked me in 1991 to support their initiatives to ostracize homosexuals, and it wasn't because the great Fuck-All was grossed out by buggery.
Do you know why people are so offended by Fuck? Because they
want to be.
Do you know why some people are so offended by God? No, really, there's no punch line here. Do you actually have a clue?
I'm just saying LIVE AND LET LIVE, STOP TRYING TO IMPOSE YOUR ATHEISM UPON THE REST OF US.
Aside from
equality, since that's already covered here, would you care to make a list of what else the majority of Americans should not have to be burdened with?
I'm just asking for a bit of tolerance. Live and let live.
Ah, yes. Live and let live. In other words, shut up. Keep on smiling. Keep being polite every time someone thrusts their Christianity into your life. Because asking them to be decent, honest folks who are equal to their neighbors is just
so goddamned oppressive.
Wipe your tears. Blow your nose. Get the religion off the ballot. Get it out of the laws. Because right now, "live and let live" is a one-way equation. That is, everyone else is expected to "live and let live" by continuing to grant a bunch of sniveling half-wits exercise the "right" to exercise their supremacy over everyone else. So you want to live and let live? Then
stop advocating for supremacists.
That's definitely a start. But as long as your solution to bigotry is, "It's
unfair to annoy bigots with horrible things like equality!" you're only going to stir up even more hostility.