How do you feel and rationalize those prayers that really matter that don't get answered?
Why would you pray for something that didn't align with your gods will? What would those prayers look like?
Thus far that hasn't happened. Two years ago I would have said. "wait and persist in prayer" and I would still follow that advice.
What do you mean with "prayers aligned with Gods will" ?
I'm sorry but it sounds like you meant what Q derived from it.
I don't know what Q derived from it. But "prayers aligned with God's will," means acting in harmony with your prayers or doing God's will so that he can bless you, being in good standing with his righteous requirements (for he will never hear a prayer of a person practicing unrigteousness), and asking in prayer for things which follow his purpose on the Earth. To do that you must know his purpose.
One of my Elders put it this way... "We all might be inclined to give a dollar or even five dollars to a homeless man if we felt he needed it, but we might pause if he asked for 50 dollars. Person that neither knows your name nor you theirs. A person you've never met before."
If you approach god with the attitude of a wishing well or genie in a bottle many have found themselves sorely disappointed. Appropriately working in harmony with prayer and being persistent in it keeps your goal in mind and very often it is the dedication to righteous standards such as removing ones self from immorality, abusive speech and thus being forgiving of one another patient and joyful can work to our benefit.
How is a fitful person ever rewarded?
Does not profanity beget profanity? Is there not escalation to hostility?
Does sexual immorality bring lasting happiness and trust?
Self help books will say that half the problem if not more, that we have are all of our own doing. Unexpected pregancies, STD's, fights, unstable career enviroments. We can bless ourselves. We thus make it appropriate for God to also bless our efforts. It's not that we ever really deserve it being sinful but God is a good gift giver.