No....You aren't wrong.
To me rape is when a man pushes himself/attacks a woman who clearly does not want to have sex with him and forces her to.
Examples:
A man grabs a woman out jogging at night, pulls her into the bushes and has sex with her.
A man breaks into a house, holds a woman at knifepoint and has sex with her.
A man puts drugs in a womans drink at a bar, persuades her to go with him and has sex with her out in the parkinglot without her consent.
Even a husband and wife. The husband wants to have sex but the woman clearly is saying NO and means it. The husband thinks well you are my wife and you will have sex with me. He starts ripping her clothes off while she is yelling at him to stop but he doesn't. That is rape.
A guy man ends up in prison. He goes to take a shower and 3 guys jump him.
Two guys hold him down while another one has anal sex with him. That is rape.
But this hokey pokey shit on that list like..........
If your husband nags you to have sex, and wears you down till you say yes, it's rape...
No it's Bullshit!! and all the other stupid things on the list along the same lines.