30 Day Sex Challenge
- Thread starter Orleander
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every day can get tedious....3-4 times a week would be ideal...once a fortnight wouldn't be bad...once in a friggin year would be sweet...after 4 years of no go i've given up.
huh 4 yrs???? Aren't you married?
so, what happened?
Distance, followed by a really nasty back injury. An hour or so every other day is about all I can handle.
Yes, on purpose. In a sense in was very easy though. Not because there wasn't any pressure to conform; there was plenty. Not because I haven't been very loney, because I have. And certainly not due to a lack of opportunity, because it's all around. It's because of my state of mind and heart. I do have to add though, there was one extemely drunken and very unfortunate incendent that lasted for several minutes one night that i only remember because I was very traumatized by it, and I seem to have had an out of body experience during, with which to escape it. But other than that there has been none whatsoever. And I very rarely masturbate too. :shrug:
The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.
The first few years are the hardest. Which makes sense, I was in my twenties then (awash in testosterone).
I think that was one of the reasons I used to ride my bicycle so much. To be too tired to worry about being sexually frustrated.
I don't understand. Its so easy to meet people. Just talk to everyone.
Sex is easy.
Its all the other stuff that's difficult.
no, no...it developed over time, like a pavlov dog. i just wasn't getting what i wanted out of the experience. i was unfulfilled and it became a frustrating, negative thing that made me feel bored at best, so i just didn't want to do it anymore. well, that's not true. i still really, really want to do it. i just want it to be right next time. with my husband to be, and all it's supposed to be...
The last time I got lucky was the end of April, 1989. I've given up all hope.
The first few years are the hardest. Which makes sense, I was in my twenties then (awash in testosterone).
I think that was one of the reasons I used to ride my bicycle so much. To be too tired to worry about being sexually frustrated.
it's funny. i was in my mid thirties...the sexual prime for females. i remember when it had been one year, i was like, "OH MY GOD I'M SUCH A FREAK!" HA!
how close have you gotten to having that husband to be?