30 Day Sex Challenge

[Syzygys]

Anybody who has been married for more than 5 years can easily could go more than 30 days without sex.

hey wait a minute! They actually do...

 

[Orleander]

ok for a start as shorty said do she and i fall into the married or unmarried catigory?

if one important componant of a relationship is sex then what makes it less important for my relationship and hers than yours?

is it suddenly the case that as soon as you have a licence from the state sex becomes important where as before it wasnt?

we arnt talking about a 6month relationship here, or having sex on the first date but a 5 year relationship.

now would you go 30 days without sex? would your husband?
i know i have a low sex drive but thats low even for ME

we have. He had sinus and knee surgery in a short time frame and then there was the time I was pregnant/recuperating from child birth. Its not like we turned into sex fiends because we weren't getting any. I would like to think there is more to our relationship than sex. Maybe that's why the challenge was issued to unmarried couples as well.

 

[Asguard]

ouch knee surgury, i hope he is alright now, that is painful. my sympathies to him

that being said i already have a low enough sex drive because of the antidepressants and i wasnt going to delibratly lower it further for the sake of someone else. i especially wasnt going to piss PB off more by saying to her "i know you only get sex about twice a month anyway, but some wanker on sciforums thinks our relationship would be stronger if we just skiped this month compleatly, i know we pay $30 every three months so you can have the pill and you take it religiously every day but forget all that"

how do you think she would react?

 

[Orleander]

Considering you rarely have sex anyways, I think you are already are doing the challenge. My husband and I average about 20x a month. We only had to try for those extra 10 days. And it was more difficult than I thought.
But at no time did we think we were being told what to do.

And he hasn't completely recovered from either surgery, and I appreciate you asking. They damaged a nerve in his knee so he is going to a pain specialist now. He has some kind of shocking/electrode thing he uses. I see another surgery in his future.