A friend of mine, who is married, is also very, very close to his ex. And I mean very close. So much so that they sit and talk about old times all the time. Now that is not weird at all in and of itself. What is weird is that she is now going out with a guy who looks, talks and thinks like him (her ex). And they constantly keep reminding the poor guy that he is the exact replica of her ex (my friend).
His wife just laughs it off but the rest of us feel uncomfortable. Not because of their still very close relationship, but because both have admitted that the feelings they had for each other never really waned and the only reason they broke up was because she wanted to live in one place and he did not... His wife does not know that he still loves his ex as much as he did when they were together and when she's not around, he has commented that he misses his life with said ex. Which usually results in our telling him that he needs to stop acting like a turd and be more respectful of his wife and his marriage and to move on.
That is wrong in my opinion. It's one thing to stay friends with your ex. It is another thing altogether to keep pining for them or to have said ex then go out with a guy who is so much like you that he could be your twin, even personality wise.
well in my respect, my BF's ex misses doesnt want him back and doesnt pine after him all the time,