I don't care who my husband is friends with. He's not a child and he can make his own decisions. I may not like some of his friends, but I don't have to hang out with them. I don't even care if he still hung out with old girlfriends. He's with me and not them for a reason.
I'm not insecure I guess.
While I don't disagree, it wouldn't be her I would be worried about, it would be the guys she hangs out with that would cause me to be wary.
She could be 100% trustrworthy and not cheat, but some jackass would still try to be friends with her in order to get on her good side in hopes of nailing her.
If you watch closely enough you can usually spot guys like that.
Even so, what the fuck could I do to stop it? Nothing.
You couldn't stop it, but you could remedy your own feelings about the situation by finding a woman who doesn't have many (or any) guy friends.
I wish I had more guy friends. I am quite friendly and touchy. Guys read that wrong, so I have to be careful.
Some guys do misinterpret stuff like that.
I personally do not like being around touch/flirty women that are already taken. Do not flirt with me if you aren't ready to follow through.
Our relationship is not about the sex. Its about caring for each other.
Aww. How sweet. Funny thing is, you could dump her, go get a plutonic male roommate/partner, and still be able to make that same statement.
He won't be my husband much longer, but I'd rather have that than be a jealous insecure shrew trying to control him.
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It would also depend on whether or not she had male friends before we dated.
If she was like Liebling who has had guy friends all her life, it wouldn't be a big deal. But if she was the type to not hang around guys, or many people at all, then suddenly wanted to start having a bunch of guy friends, then that's when red flags would start going up.
I would never tell a woman she couldn't do this or couldn't do that if I disliked something she was doing. However, I would tell her how I feel about something, 'honey, I'm not really comfortable with you hanging out with so and so'.
If she continued with it regardless and I still felt strongly about it, then I'd leave.