Athelwulf said:That's a pessimistic attitude. I understand that you feel vulnerable right now, but if you try to be optimistic, it will be better. Just please don't think everything we do in life is only in vain. That's a bad mindset! Be optimistic!
Now that I shan't be going to heaven, it is a bit hard to be optimistic..
It does too make a difference to be good! Even if Hitler ended up with the same fate as Ghandi, many curse Hitler and look up to Ghandi. You don't want to be evil and have people curse the fact that you existed! You want to be good and have people look up to you and strive to be more like you and wish there were more people like you! No one's legacy and efforts are irrelavent!
Note, by referring to Hiter, I am not saying be "evil".
I am only saying that is it not possible to be a little more "loose" in life since it is the only life you have and any reservations you have will only be your loss since once you die that is it?
I am not saying go and kill millions or anything like that. Participating in a threesome and going to college parties is more of what I had in mind.. perhaps the Hitler analogy was a little too extreme. All I mean to say is not living life according to what society deems acceptable since it is the only life you have and when you die, you wouldn't care anyway.
If you don't feel comfortable with telling people about this yet, that's perfectly okay. It is a personal matter. But the people you love should know sooner or later. Your mother may not approve of your decision, but she will still love you.
I can see you know very little about the mother who raised me up with Christian fundamental written all over my forehead...
If ya don't have the balls to tell everyone, wait til ya do.
It's not a stupid fear. It's a perfectly valid fear. This is probably a fear of being shunned for rejecting your beliefs. No one wants to be rejected. It's an understandable fear.
Maybe one day. I suspect they won't even listen to my reasoning.
There is this one (Christian) friend I have been talking to and sharing my doubts with. I am told by this person that it is simply "God's mind is so high above us that we can't understand everything about Him". To which I of course reply, if that is the case then how can we know the Bible is trustworthy since it is penned by (allegedly God-inspired) men? And if that is the case then we have no reason to think any of our interpretations are at all valid.
Not to mention when the Bible says quite clearly that the earth is flat, we really shouldn't be relying on it to tell us the record of the human genesis.