Why is being nude so "wrong"?

Orleander said:
4 yr olds aren't known for their patience. Well, at least mine isn't. Nor was he known to be loaded with common sense then either.
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Oh well, at four I probably did the same thing. Shorty was talking about someone who was an adult, or at least at the age of reason.

SAM:
Depends, what if someone is vomiting blood? Would you consider that as an invasion of privacy?
Does it require a knock?
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No, of course not. We had to bust open a door once because my friend had passed out in the shower and we were afraid he'd fallen and knocked his head.

Besides, mom never locked the bathroom when she showered, so it was never a big deal to just pop your head around for a question.
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Eh. It depends on context. I ran around naked all the time when I was a kid and my parents didn't think much of it. I still skinny dip if I can when camping - my swimming suit is quite ornamental and more designed to look cute.
But I would find a family where the parents were naked in front of their children to be a bit odd. Something to do with being conscious of your body as sexual.
 
Xev said:
No, of course not. We had to bust open a door once because my friend had passed out in the shower and we were afraid he'd fallen and knocked his head.
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Yeah, we did not consider showering as an excuse for casual chatting

But I would find a family where the parents were naked in front of their children to be a bit odd.
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So would I; but I would not go into another room and lock it if I wanted to change my clothes, either.
Something to do with being conscious of your body as sexual
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Dad's a doctor, mom used to be a nurse; they did not have a concept of nudity as sexual, and we grew up with their concepts.

PS didn't mean they were okay with us partying in revealing clothes either, when we were young; thats a totally different subject ;)
 
Xev said:
But I would find a family where the parents were naked in front of their children to be a bit odd. Something to do with being conscious of your body as sexual.
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Me too......I mean when they are babies and such that is one thing. When they are older It doesn't sit well with me.

Xev, what do you think of Orleanders 9 yr old daughter being very much "nudie" as she said. In the company of her 13 yr old brother? who just apparently stopped streaking around. Do you find that fine?
 
Xev said:
Oh well, at four I probably did the same thing. Shorty was talking about someone who was an adult, or at least at the age of reason. .....
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she didn't know how old he was when she said he showed no common sense.
 
9 years is young and he is her brother. My brother grew up with four females in relative states of undress around him for 30 years.
 
shorty_37 said:
Me too......I mean when they are babies and such that is one thing. When they are older It doesn't sit well with me.

Xev, what do you think of Orleanders 9 yr old daughter being very much "nudie" as she said. In the company of her 13 yr old brother? who just apparently stopped streaking around. Do you find that fine?
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He's 16. He stopped when he was about 13.
 
Orleander said:
she didn't know how old he was when she said he showed no common sense.
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No because of your earlier comments about your kids running around naked at 9 and 13. Thats WHY i kept asking how old he was.......But you wouldn't answer until what 4 pages later after you are hearing negative feedback:shrug:

Obviously I thought he was older.
 
shorty_37 said:
What if he wasn't drunk. What if it was a big planned out event, then done behind your back?
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That's deceitful, so he'd be out.
Thing is, I go out and interact with attractive, uninhibited, (shirtless) guys all the time. It is sorely tempting, and I could really not blame a person too hard for seizing the opportunity for some good sex. I would be more concerned about disease than jealous.

SAM said:
Thats what I meant by it'd have to be more than just sex. It'd also have to be a long term relationship, obviously there is a reason its long term. I might leave him if he kept jumping my bones when I was unconscious though.
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Precisely. The latter to me is (not intending to open some can of worms) more a deal-breaker: whoever I sleep with had damn well better show respect for my desire and participation. But it's all in how you percieve things.
 
Xev said:
That's deceitful, so he'd be out.
Thing is, I go out and interact with attractive, uninhibited, (shirtless) guys all the time. It is sorely tempting, and I could really not blame a person too hard for seizing the opportunity for some good sex. I would be more concerned about disease than jealous.
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Thats the way I see it, too.

Precisely. The latter to me is (not intending to open some can of worms) more a deal-breaker: whoever I sleep with had damn well better show respect for my desire and participation. But it's all in how you percieve things.
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Yeah, I guess.
 
my 8yr old son walks around naked all the time, he hates wearing clothes and there is nothing wrong with that, his older brother and sister just walk around him, and ignore him, i think if you make a fuss about nudity then the child would think there is somthing wrong with being naked and there's not, its the most natural state in the world
 
Xev said:
Precisely. The latter to me is (not intending to open some can of worms) more a deal-breaker: whoever I sleep with had damn well better show respect for my desire and participation. But it's all in how you percieve things.
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HAHA.......hey like I said......he respects my desires like 97% of the time......the other I let him get his way LMAO

So Xev where are these shirtless men? lol.....
 
shorty_37 said:
No because of your earlier comments about your kids running around naked at 9 and 13. Thats WHY i kept asking how old he was.......But you wouldn't answer until what 4 pages later after you are hearing negative feedback:shrug:

Obviously I thought he was older.
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why would I dignify what you had to say with a response? Its not as if I ignored your question about his age and THEN you said he had no common sense. WAS IT?! You flat out were rude. And you don't apologize to people when you are rude. And when they say "That was rude", you say "tough shit, you're a liar" hell, yeah, I'm gettin all het up about it. Its my kid!
Can you understand that!?
 
shorty_37 said:
Me too......I mean when they are babies and such that is one thing. When they are older It doesn't sit well with me.

Xev, what do you think of Orleanders 9 yr old daughter being very much "nudie" as she said. In the company of her 13 yr old brother? who just apparently stopped streaking around. Do you find that fine?
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They're siblings, it's not that big a deal in my opinion - and kinda weird not to just pull on some damn pants, but everyone's different.

HAHA.......hey like I said......he respects my desires like 97% of the time......the other I let him get his way LMAO

So Xev where are these shirtless men? lol.....
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To each her own.

And - raves, techno clubs, parties. My friends and I venture into Detroit maybe once a month, and there are a few places closer to home.
 
And - raves, techno clubs, parties. My friends and I venture into Detroit maybe once a month, and there are a few places closer to home.
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hehehw raves! Lots of shirtless people of all genders
 
Xev said:
They're siblings, it's not that big a deal in my opinion - and kinda weird not to just pull on some damn pants, but everyone's different.



To each her own.

And - raves, techno clubs, parties. My friends and I venture into Detroit maybe once a month, and there are a few places closer to home.
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i would have to agree with you, my son like i said walks around naked all the time, he hates clothes and his brother and sister just walk around him and ignore it, theres nothing wrong with being naked, he's more comfortable that way, he'll grow out of it when he is ready.
 
Xev said:
Not for people who and have been dancing in a small room with 100 other people for hours....
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Heh, from my experience of Christmas dances, I'd say their BAC would also play a role.:p
 
lucifers angel said:
my 8yr old son walks around naked all the time, he hates wearing clothes and there is nothing wrong with that, his older brother and sister just walk around him, and ignore him, i think if you make a fuss about nudity then the child would think there is somthing wrong with being naked and there's not, its the most natural state in the world
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Exactly the point!
 
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