Why is being nude so "wrong"?

I mean my 6 yr old wouldn't think of doing that. If I am in the bathroom and they really need me, they knock on the door......or talk through it, if they can't wait till I get out.
Just as I wouldn't think of going in when my 11 yr old is showering and just pulling back the curtain on him and start asking him questions. My 6 yr old is another story, but how about the word "privacy"?

i changed my post. But once males reach maybe not 11 but it is close i would say around that age things start to change fast. They dont have the sophistication to deal with this stuff.:shrug:
 
i changed my post. But once males reach maybe not 11 but it is close i would say around that age things start to change fast. They dont have the sophistication to deal with this stuff.:shrug:

Shyness is normal at a certain age, but you're supposed to grow out of it.
 
Thats weird to me. Why would you knock to speak to your parents? Or kid? What are you going to do? See their naked body and feel lustful?

Mt ex gf thought there was no problem going to a male gyno. and i informed her that this was not good, and she called me a pervert:rolleyes:.
 
i changed my post. But once males reach maybe not 11 but it is close i would say around that age things start to change fast. They dont have the sophistication to deal with this stuff.:shrug:

Well he wants his privacy....he doesn't want me just popping in when he is in the shower, or getting dressed in his room. Nor would I want them doing that to me.
 
Mt ex gf thought there was no problem going to a male gyno. and i informed her that this was not good, and she called me a pervert:rolleyes:.

I go to male gynos/doctors The best gyno I have ever seen was a shy Egyptian male doctor :bugeye:
 
Shyness is normal at a certain age, but you're supposed to grow out of it.

So what age should he grow out of it, and start walking around carlessly naked around our house?
I am guessing that will happen when he has his OWN place.
 
I go to male gynos/doctors The best gyno I have ever seen was a shy Egyptian male doctor :bugeye:

Well, that is fine for you but you are not a male, and males DO look at things differently. I cannot say much more on this but nature is nature and i cannot change that fact.
 
So what age should he grow out of it, and start walking around carlessly naked around our house?
I am guessing that will happen when he has his OWN place.

Walking naked around the house is a matter of choice.

Whenever he wants to, I guess. Not much different from him doing it at two years of age.
 
Oh, ok S.A.M. How would you look at it if your bf went to a real nice looking female doctor to look at his private parts every few months?
 
Well, that is fine for you but you are not a male, and males DO look at things differently. I cannot say much more on this but nature is nature and i cannot change that fact.

Heh, those males haven't been around too many nude beaches I would say; probably the same kind of males who think a short skirt is an invitation to hit on the girl.
 
I mean if men went for checkups like women do. You have to admit that it would bother you, this is normal as far as i know.
 
he he your funny:D. But you did not answer the question seriously, ok so your boyfriend\husband goes into a room and gets his weenie examined the same good looking woman on a regular basis...that is jus fine?
 
Thats weird to me. Why would you knock to speak to your parents? Or kid? What are you going to do? See their naked body and feel lustful?

Because they can talk to me all day long. I would like a few minutes to myself if I am taking a shower for starters. Has nothing to do with feeling lustful. I mean I already see my sons friend looking at my boobs (when I am dressed) Do you think it would be just fine and dandy, if my son came up to my bathroom with him and whipped open the shower curtain? Do you think my son's friends mom would appreciate hearing about it ? My son when he is taking a shower wants privacy too, and I give it to him.

My son has more common sense than that.

You think that a family that walks around naked just because they are related "MIGHT" never stir up some feelings that shouldn't be there. Like when you kids are in their teenage yrs and you have both girls and boys living in the same house. I disagree.
 
I mean if men went for checkups like women do. You have to admit that it would bother you, this is normal as far as i know.

I get an exam from my proctologist every year now for I don't want to get anything happening to my colon or parts therein.
Almost forgot, I go to a urologist also yearly. Neither of them bother me at all when I see them.
 
he he your funny:D. But you did not answer the question seriously, ok so your boyfriend\husband goes into a room and gets his weenie examined the same good looking woman on a regular basis...that is jus fine?

What does going to a doctor have anything to do with our relationship? (unless he has STDs?)
 
Because they can talk to me all day long. I would like a few minutes to myself if I am taking a shower for starters. Has nothing to do with feeling lustful. I mean I already see my sons friend looking at my boobs (when I am dressed) Do you think it would be just fine and dandy, if my son came up to my bathroom with him and whipped open the shower curtain? Do you think my son's friends mom would appreciate hearing about it ?

My son has more common sense than that.

You think that a family that walks around naked just because they are related "MIGHT" never stir up some feelings that shouldn't be there. Like when you kids are in their teenage yrs and you have both girls and boys living in the same house. I disagree.

Having grown up in a house like that, I find it hilarious that you would make such assumptions. Its the attitude that matters, if you have an unhealthy attitude to sex and nudity, no amount of clothes are going to prevent incest.:p
 
Back
Top