Since I'm brand new to the forums, thought I'd weigh in. My preference is to spend time with intelligent people, regardless of their faith or lack thereof. If they will respect my faith, I'll more than happily respect theirs.
I'm a pastor, and actually, I'd RATHER spend time with an intelligent atheist any day than a narrow-minded parishioner, no matter how devout they might be. I love discussing evolution (natural selection for me, with God in the background tweaking the genetic code every now and again), cosmology (Big Bang unless evidence begins to move away from this), political theory, and other cool topics. That isn't always easy for me among the very religious (in some circles, at least).
Many religious people seem incapable of interacting on any equal footing with an atheist or other non-believer. When some do interact, it's not authentic, because the religious person wants to convert the atheist from their "wrong" way of thinking. Or believers want to argue their own views about a topic and for many, this means there's no room for any dissent from their views nor any real realtionship either.
The good news is that there are as many types of Christians and other spiritual seekers as there are any other group, and some I've found are really open and welcoming of people from any background or viewpoint.
For me, I do hold the special place of Jesus in the world, but I can't prove he was so special. I hold this as an article of faith, just like I believe in the deepest part of my being that there is an ineffable force collectively referred to as God, even though I cannot possibly offer you any hard proof of this. Again, it's an article of my personal faith.
In my experience, love and care for others is the truest expression of God's life within the life of the world. I'd rather show others some kindness and some respect for their opinions, than try to convert them or get them to say the "right words" or "pray" some magical prayer that will supposedly make them okie dokey with the "Big Guy Upstairs". To me, that view is nonsense and I'd rather just try to live out my faith quietly, trying to do good. At lease, that's my take on the whole thiest/atheist dance.