Devastation
Nightmare in Uttar Pradesh: via The Indian Express
It occurs to me that I
considered Uttar Pradesh↱ earlier in the thread, while recalling an earlier discussion of rape culture. And the thing about checking in for the update is that the intersection of Uttar Pradesh and Women is a real-time, perpetual human rights disaster.
A silent revolution is unfolding in the backwaters of Uttar Pradesh. Women in a remote village in Fatehpur district are now insisting that their husbands who work in cities and metros get a HIV test done before they return home for vacations.
"We do not want our husbands to bring back disease and death, along with money and gifts. We are not sure of their lifestyle when they are away from home and we cannot risk the health of the entire family. A simple blood test is all that is needed to set our doubts at rest and the men should not have a problem with this," said Rameshwari, 26, whose husband works in Ludhiana.
(The Asian Age↱)
This is important. Migrant mining and other labor has proven a problematic vector in the effort to curb HIV transmission; I recall reading of this issue in Africa sometime in the late nineties or early aughts. And this is very important in Uttar Pradesh, as we might discern from
Amir Haque↱ for India Today:
Known for its pathetic law and order situation, Uttar Pradesh is once again in news for all the wrong reasons. The issue this time is a record jump in figures relating to crime against women in the state.
The latest figures released by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) puts UP in the number one position with a record escalation in cases of crime against women.
With a figure of 38467 in 2014 as against 32546 in 2013, the state has recorded a jump of 18% in cases where women have been victims in criminal cases. With this, UP has broken all previous records of escalation in such crimes, leaving behind Andhra Pradesh which in 2013 had recorded 32809 cases of crimes against the fairer sex ....
.... As per National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), the figures relating to crimes against women include crime-heads like rape, attempt to rape, kidnapping and abduction of women, dowry deaths, assault on women with intent to outrage her modesty, cruelty by husband or his relatives, human smuggling, domestic violence and immoral trafficking etc.
And I don't know whether to laugh or gnash my teeth about
"the fairer sex". It is, I suppose, an adorable term for all the wrong reasons.
If I tell you the headline
Sandali Tiwari↱ is,
"12-year-old Odisha girl sold by uncle, raped, escapes, raped again" ... I mean, really. Can I
please not quote the detail? Uttar Pradesh is known worldwide as a continuing atrocity.
And the impact:
Coming out of the stigma to mend their tattered lives, women in Uttar Pradesh, especially from Lucknow who are infected with HIV AIDS will now have a better chance of living. FICCI Ladies Organisation (FLO) Lucknow Kanpur Chapter, in a unique collaboration with Uttar Pradesh AIDS control society (UPSACS) will be creating livelihood for HIV-positive and HIV affected women. According to data, there are around 37,045 HIV positive women in the state.
(Times of India↱)
It is an ugly cycle, predictable in some of its dimensions, and greatly empowered by powerully dehumanizing customs regarding women in society.
Youth Ki Awaaz↱ offers a striking glimpse:
"Are you married? Why don't you make yourself up a little? You must be bathing, even putting on clothes everyday – so how much longer will it take to do a little make-up? I detest women who don't dress up a little, take care of the way they look," says the Station Officer in the Chilla police station, Tindwari block, Banda district, Uttar Pradesh. He's talking to a reporter. She's come into the station to investigate a rape in the area. The line of questioning obviously led him to inquire about her personal beautification habits. It's a common detour.
"You roam around all day, in the burning sun – it's not right for women to be roaming around this way. I'll give you a job right here, with a pay of 10,000 rupees a month!" the Inspector at the police post in Baberu block of Banda commented with concern, and an accompanying sneer. When the reporter he was addressing said that in fact, she had come to get some information on a story, the same Inspector asked her to return later in the evening, alone, and "all your questions will be answered…" When the reporter objected to this, the only effect it had was to replace the sneer with big-bellied hoots of laughter. The reporter got the information she needed from another official present in the station, and left.
For women, the disrespect is ubiquitous:
A member of Vanangana, who has worked for decades with women in this area told us about travelling with these women a few years ago, "I boarded the train from Chitrakoot station. There were many women carrying bundles of wood on their heads; one caught my eye, she seemed like she was 14 or 15 years old. A man was harassing her, for some time. When he was getting off the train, he pressed tightly against the girl's chest, and bit her cheek. This wasn't some isolated, lonely place – it was in a packed compartment of a local train. The girl was traumatised, but when we said we should go to the police, she responded, 'Madam, this is an everyday thing for me. The police will say that we entrap men on purpose; our clothes draw men to us.' The girl was dressed, as were all the women carrying wood, in a dhoti folded high, and her sari pallu tied around her waist. In incidents like this, the police often say that women invite unwanted attention. I've witnessed this myself many times."
While the economy is growing in India, the participation of women in the workforce is low and in places like rural Uttar Pradesh, where employment opportunity is scarce enough that men travel as migrant labor, many women find themselves economically constrained. In the end, asking their husbands to show they haven't picked up HIV is not really a big ask.
And while it is easy enough to suggest it is, well, yeah, they're women; it's only their lives. And that's the problem. We can't pretend the flesh trade in India is any sort of romantic idyll; while it is easy enough to postulate the legitimacy of prostitution as an industry, the market reality is overwhelmingly awful anywhere. It is, furthermore, reasonable to point to cycles of poverty and undereducation, but these generally affect women more severely, and in the end we cannot look past the cultural pathways by which such outcomes would seem to take it out on women simply because they are women.
That is, in the psychoanalytical exploration of history, the difference between disrespect general and particular becomes important. Two men might beat each other to death for whatever reasons, but rarely will their manhood be the specific reason.
Did you scratch his car? Did you look at his girl wrong? Are you the wrong religion? Sure, maybe he'll come after you.
What about her? She's a woman? That's good enough for him?
That's the difference.
Rape culture occurs in every society in the human endeavor; the manner in which it manifests
reflects the culture. Uttar Pradesh
seethes with dense concentrations of the elements, and at the heart is the dehumanization of women.
Wives demanding HIV tests of their husbands?
This is what it comes to. After all, it's only their lives. Maybe their husbands don't give a damn, but being a woman takes on much greater significance if one
is a woman. And that a society disdains the notion of women as human beings does not mean they are not.
But yes, Uttar Pradesh is a pretty good example of what it comes to.
I loathe the update from Uttar Pradesh; it's a nightmare.
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Notes:
Correspondent. "Uttar Pradesh: Women insist on HIV tests for husbands in cities". The Asian Age. 2 December 2015. AsianAge.com. 4 December 2015. http://bit.ly/1IKnptA
Haque, Amir. "Women most unsafe in Akhilesh's Uttar Pradesh". India Today. 17 November 2015. IndiaToday.InToday.in. 4 December 2015. http://bit.ly/1m2EtWK
Khabar Lahariya. "Think Life's Easy For A Journalist Or Panchayat Head? Nope. Not When You're 'Just A Woman'". Youth Ki Awaaz. 17 November 2015. YouthKiAwaaz.com. 4 December 2015. http://bit.ly/1Q6nlMf
Tiwari, Sandali. "12-year-old Odisha girl sold by uncle, raped, escapes, raped again". The Indian Express. 3 December 2015. IndianExpress.com. 4 December 2015. http://bit.ly/1XI2T8Q
TNN. "Ficci wing extends help to HIV-positive women". The Times of India. 1 December 2015. TimesOfIndia.IndiaTimes.com. 4 December 2015. http://bit.ly/1PGS6aT