But of course you would agree that there are far less women who lose custody of their children than men right? Children who are won or lost in a custody battle are usually children who were wanted to begin with no matter the instability of one or both parents
Women almost by default gain custody of their children, no matter what the circumstances largely because of the old additude that children belong with their mother and she can take care of them better than men are. After all, it's the womans job to stay home and take care of her kids. You know, feminists don't say a thing about patriarticle additudes like this as long as they work to their advantage. Besides, that has nothing to do with the fact that women are overrepresented in the number of dead-beat parents versus men. Yeah, women win over 90% of custody battles, but out of all the parental dead-beats, women are like 30%. It means that women PERIOD are far more likely not to pay child support if the man wins custody.
A pro-life position forces their morals on others. Pro-choice does not advocate abortions for those who do not desire one, pro-life advocates would legally force a woman to carry to term whether she or not this is her preference. So again I ask the question, why are pro-lifers so concerned about choices women make concerning their own bodies? It is not their life, it is not their body, they have no stake in the outcome, they will not be around during nine months of forced pregnancy, they will not have to make choices concerning the life of an unwanted baby. What's in it for them other than controlling another's womb?Self-interest perhaps? A desire to play god in the life of others? It is in a woman's self-interest to decide what is best for her life, the fetus is not separate from her body or her life.
A wonderful utterment of classic rhetoric
The old slogan "Who decides? YOU decide" came from someone you might be interested in knowing turned Pro-Life. HIS name (not hers) is Bernard Nathanson, and he was one of the founders of NARAL. If you want to ask anyone what really goes on in the Abortion industry and feminist movement, you might also want to look up Jane Roe. Her real name is Norma McCorvey and she has FORMALLY renounced her affidavid for Roe vs. Wade as based on false truths. In fact, she did not write her statements, they were written by her lawyers who promised her an abortion at the end the trial - an abortion she not only never had but was DENIED by the pro-choice lawyers she was helping. So much for "choice."
Biology defines life as any organism which grows, feeds, and has it's own genetic makeup. The DNA of each species is differnt from others, and thus is a unique identifying characteristic. Even if two species are 99% genetically similar, if they did not come from the same genome, they are not the same species. Reproduction at least in mammals occurs when the sperm and egg of two genetically differnt members of the same species are brought togeather. The result of the merging of DNA creates a new member of the species which is genetically similar to but not identical to either parent. The beginning of the division of the cells and forming of the fetus is the biological beginning of life. Sperm and egg are not members of the species. They have only 23 of the 46 chromismes each member of our species carries. Since the fetus is genetically differnt from the mother, it is NOT a part of her body. It is not a kidkney or a heart, or a lung. All of those organs are made of cells with the same basic DNA coding. It might be inside her body, it might be nurtured by her, but it is NOT a part of her collective living system. The fetus does not contribue to the functions which maintain her life.
Therefore, the fetus is a unique individual member of our species, by all biological and scientific definitions. Is a pig fetus still a pig? Is a chicken embryo still a chicken? Is a tadpole still a frog? Any other definition of what is human or not is based purely on subjective moral values, and subjective they are! The issue of wether someone is human or not has in the past been defined by race, age, color, national origin, religion, or issues of personal convenience. Human history as a whole is filled with examples of this. The idea that one genetically individual member of our species is the property of another based on circumstances of stature and wealth isn't exactly a new idea either.
Considering in the end how subjective and selfish humans are, would you dare say that any of us are WISE enough to choose a subjective definition for humanity? The current precidence set by Abortion has far more to it than just the self interests of women or men. It has to do with how we as humans base our decisions on how we reguard each other. Pro-choice says as well that it perfectly OK for one specific class of our species (women) to have the authority to decide which members of our species are human or not. If I take exact same motivation and apply it to a larger scale, you find a classic geo-political situation. Two indigenous peoples inhabit the same space. One is dependant upon the other somehow for it's survival, but the other is atonomous. Is it moral then, for the stronger culture to wipe out the dependant one as to whord all the resources that area holds? More than likely, the other culture retailiates and war ensues.
The only reason this doesn't apply to the unborn is because they are simply incapable of any kind of self defense. A child even newly born can cry out in distress at it's situation to alert others of it's peril. But strangely enough, most pro-choicers do not even mention this fact. It is because it highlights the key difference between a child born and a child unborn. Anyone can come to the aid of a child born. No one but mother can help the unborn.
Do any of you sleep well at night knowing that it is perfectly okay for your mother to have the right to decide if you had even been born or not? I am glad that my mothers morals do not make me need ask this question. Indeed, this very question is one the pro-choice movement doesn't want you to ask. They don't want you to know if your parents had abortions or not, and if you ask your parents, how will they answer? How can they tell you that you might have had an older sibling they decided not to have? How will they be able to in the end justify having you and not them? I actually know several friends who found out their parents had abortions and they ALL found themselves asking these same questions. No matter how a mother might justify it to herself, in the end those justifications are purely as subjective as any other argument or even gut emotional reaction.
In the end, the question isn't about murder or child support. It is a very ancient philosophical question we humans have asked for thousands of years. "What is it to be a human being?" Human philosophy is marred with personal bias, ego, and self interest. Self interest is the root of all the conflicts and evils in human history.
Biology by contrast is unbiased in it's findings, and biology states that fetuses are individual humans. Not one shread of personal ego or self interest is found in accepting this definition of humanity. It is therefore arguably, the best one available.