its wrong because you only bring the term in to somehow compensate for your material concepts of gender
You're an odd one, somehow trying to contend that using a word that has a specific meaning regarding the sex of a certain being is somehow a better word to use than one which doesn't have such an issue.
It: used to represent a being understood, previously mentioned, or about to be mentioned whose gender is unknown or disregarded
As this entity is genderless 'it' would be the word to use, whereas him is completely the wrong word to use when referring to a genderless entity. The reason 'him' is used in scripture is because of the status of women in society at the time these texts were penned. To try to prevent this scripture from being called into question people like you make up entirely new meanings for words that already have clear meanings.
just because we have fallibility doesn't make us somehow better
It shows that we have something that god does not, and thus outrank him in that regard. This is the problem with any claim to an entity being a supreme entity. As Gasking stated:
1) The creation of the world is the most marvelous achievement imaginable.
2) The merit of an achievement is the product of (a) its intrinsic quality, and (b) the ability of its creator.
3) The greater the disability (or handicap) of the creator, the more impressive the achievement.
4) The most formidable handicap for a creator would be non-existence.
5) Therefore if we suppose that the universe is the product of an existent creator we can conceive a greater being — namely, one who created everything while not existing.
6) Therefore, God does not exist.
With any argument to a supreme being you will find that that completely pulls it apart the very second that entity lacks anything. The second it lacks, a greater entity can be conceived.
My god is both material and immaterial and thus outranks your god.