The Gay Fray

I am . . . .

  • Homosexual

    Votes: 25 9.2%
  • Heterosexual

    Votes: 201 73.6%
  • Bisexual

    Votes: 31 11.4%
  • Other (I would have complained if there wasn't an "other" option)

    Votes: 16 5.9%

  • Total voters
    273
No, not comparing them ....hell, nothing's worse than homosexuality, especially in "men" (and I used that term very, very loosely!).

I merely point out that homosexuality is a sexual perversion as is such things a goat/sheep fucking, fucking dead bodies, fucking holes in trees, ...., or any and all kinds of other strange, odd, weird sexual perversions.



A 15-year old girl has the intelligence to consent to sex, yet you've stated many times that it's illegal or wrong ....and you give long, long, involved bullshit explanations as if it's okay to prevent one group from having consentual sex, yet you use the same consent argument to give validity to homosexual sex.

A masochist can and does give his/her consent to be whipped, beaten, sexually abused in every way, yet society has laws against giving consent to the very things that she enjoys. Odd, huh?



I don't know why you continue to use that "fear" phrase? It's not about fear, it's about the same thing that prevents society from allowing abortion or sado-masochist abuse or the consent of underage people, etc, ...we in society simply don't think it's "right" to allow it. Ain't got nothin' to do with fear.

I think it's so funny ....all these homosexuals who get caught in the act, then try to claim that they're not gay ......as if gay is the worst disease known to man. Oopps, wait a minute, ...maybe it is the worse disease known to man!

Baron Max

How about you shut up and get that right-wing brain of yours around this concept: HOMOSEXUALITY ≠ RAPING ANIMALS/CHILDREN. Homosexual sex (normally) involves 2 consenting adults.

And it's about time the 'society' you refer to used some reason instead of being ruled by kneejerk reactions. Society isn't automatically right. According to 'society' I am a disturbed individual in need of help, merely because I listen to death metal and wear dark clothes. Is that automatically true because society says so?
 
How about you shut up and get that right-wing brain of yours around this concept: HOMOSEXUALITY ≠ RAPING ANIMALS/CHILDREN. Homosexual sex (normally) involves 2 consenting adults.

And it's about time the 'society' you refer to used some reason instead of being ruled by kneejerk reactions. Society isn't automatically right. According to 'society' I am a disturbed individual in need of help, merely because I listen to death metal and wear dark clothes. Is that automatically true because society says so?

Amen!

I generally agree with what you just stated...

Baron Max is lacking.
 
Traditionalists celebrate as lesbian couple obliged to stay married

Source: Boston.com
Link: http://www.boston.com/news/local/rh..._married_in_massachusetts_cant_divorce_in_ri/
Title: "Court: Gay couple married in Massachusetts can't divorce in R.I.", by Eric Tucker
Date: December 7, 2007

In a stunning victory for traditionalists, the Rhode Island Supreme Court has ordered a lesbian couple to stay married.

A lesbian couple who married in Massachusetts cannot get divorced in their home state of Rhode Island, the state's highest court ruled Friday in a setback to gay rights advocates who sought greater recognition for same-sex relationships.

The Rhode Island Supreme Court, in a 3-2 decision, said the family court lacks the authority to grant a divorce because state lawmakers have not defined marriage as anything other than between a man and a woman.

"The role of the judicial branch is not to make policy, but simply to determine the legislative intent as expressed in the statutes enacted by the General Assembly," the court wrote in the state's first case dealing with same-sex divorce.


(Tucker)

On the surface, this decision seems to contravene the U.S. Constitution at least on two counts, but I need to do more digging to confirm that.

As Tucker notes:

Massachusetts is the only state where gay marriage is legal, but it restricts the unions to residents of states where the marriage would be recognized. A Massachusetts judge last year decided neighboring Rhode Island was one of those states because no law specifically bans the marriages here.

But the courts and the legislature in Rhode Island have not taken any action to recognize same-sex marriages performed in Massachusetts.

The Supreme Court said the General Assembly did not have gay marriage in mind when it created Rhode Island's family court, which handles divorces, in 1961. The justices said Rhode Island laws contained numerous references to marriage as between a woman and a man.


(ibid)

In addition to my usual complaint that such conditions violate the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment through gender discrimination, but also Article IV:

Article IV

Section 1. Full faith and credit shall be given in each state to the public acts, records, and judicial proceedings of every other state. And the Congress may by general laws prescribe the manner in which such acts, records, and proceedings shall be proved, and the effect thereof.

Section 2. The citizens of each state shall be entitled to all privileges and immunities of citizens in the several states ....


(Legal Information Institute)

Massachusetts recognized Rhode Island's lack of specific prohibition; Rhode Island ought to recognize Massachusetts' marriage of this couple. By refusing to grant this couple relief, the Rhode Island courts are refusing to recognize the full faith and credit of public acts, records, and judicial proceedings in Massachusetts, and also stating that the reason for this refusal is that one of the petitioners is the wrong gender.

Interestingly, both the Attorney General and Governor of Rhode Island (the latter being on the record as an opponent of same-sex marriage) support the right of this couple to divorce in Rhode Island.

While the Court wrote, in its 3-2 decision, that the role of the judiciary is not to make policy, it would seem that it has done exactly that: If you are the "wrong gender", stay the f@ck out of Rhode Island; if you are the "wrong gender", go somewhere else if you expect to have any rights under the law.
 
Quote of the Day: Al Gore
Former Vice-President advocates gay marriage


From Current.com:

Gay men and women ought to have the same rights as heterosexual men and women—to make contracts, to have hospital visiting rights, to join together in marriage, and I don’t understand why it is considered by some people to be a threat to heterosexual marriage. Shouldn’t we be promoting [that] kind of faithfulness and loyalty to ones partner regardless of sexual orientation?

(Al Gore)

(Via Slog.)
 
Damn it ... here we go again

Damn it ... here we go again
Tennessee 2008, meet Oregon 1992


What the hell is wrong with heterosupremacists?

Representative Stacey Campfield of Knoxville filed a bill last week that would prevent public elementary and middle schools from allowing "any instruction or materials discussing sexual orientation other than heterosexuality" ....

.... Campfield says the bill was a response to a National Education Association resolution that suggests schools provide information on diversity of sexual orientation and gender identification in sex-education classes.

"I think the schools should stick to the basics: reading, writing, and arithmetic. And maybe some civics," says Campfield. "But teaching transgenderism to middle school students ... I don't think that's the road we should go down. I think that's what parents should be doing."

Currently, individual school boards decide whether or not sexual orientation and gender identity will be discussed within the sex-ed curriculum. Memphis City School officials are currently considering a new curriculum that would address sexual orientation and gender identity. Shelby County School officials did not return phone calls by press time.

"Why does [Campfield] feel the need to take control of what's taught in a school system away from local boards of education and away from local communities?" asks Earl Wiman, president of the Tennessee Education Association. Campfield's bill allows discussion of heterosexuality because he wants students to learn biology and the science of reproduction.


(Phillips)

So ... reading, writing, arithmetic, and maybe some civics? Ah, but also biology and the science of reproduction.

I would say, "Don't worry, he's nuts," because he is

"If I were to say 'Jack and Jill went up the hill' or 'George Washington and Martha Washington were husband and wife,' there are groups out there that would say we were pushing a heterosexual agenda. To keep those lawsuits from coming, I thought we should still be able to talk about that side of it," Campfield says.

Over the years, Campfield has proposed other controversial legislation, such as replacing the state's food tax with a tax on pornography and requiring the state to issue death certificates for aborted fetuses. In 2005, Campfield compared the state's Black Caucus to the Ku Klux Klan when they refused to let him join because he is white.


(ibid)

The flip-side, of course, is that Tennessee is part of the South, so people have a very poor image of the place. Will his colleagues join him in a grand ol' parade of tilting windmills? Stereotype and superstition suggests they will, but one can always hope to be corrected on this point.

Opponents of the bill worry that it would stifle student speech, as well. "What if a student chooses to write about a current issue on sexuality?" asks Chris Sanders, president of the Tennessee Equality Project. Well, why not make it a little less provocative, eh? What if a student chooses to write a paper about, oh ... say ... Tennessee Williams? Lord Byron? How about Isaac Newton? Really, that makes a great story:

The book [Principia] was widely accepted, and soon after this, Newton became a Member of Parliament. But all the while he was in the House of Commons, the only time he spoke was to say, "Could someone close the window? I've got a draught on my back." Shortly after this fiery maiden speech, Newton became depressed, to the point that he almost had a breakdown. This came during the only time the unmarried Newton ever appeared to be in love in any sense, when he became obsessed with a young Swiss mathematician called Nicholas Fatio de Duillier. The lad shared Newton's interest in alchemy. But then Fatio sent Newton a desperate letter:
"Yesterday, I had a sudden sense as might be caused by the breaking of an ulcer. As yet I have no doctor that perhaps could save my life. I thank God my soul is quiet, in which you have had the chief hand."​
Then Fatio spoiled this by living for another sixty-one years.

Even now, you can't help changing your perception of Newton slightly once you know he was probably gay. Can you imagine him saying, "Because of gravity, I can't help but go down on a body with a large mass"? But worryingly for Newton, Fatio started leaving papers around that would give away Newton's secret life as an alchemist. Which shows how fleeting the prejudices of society are, that in the 1680s a bloke could think, "If I'm not careful, that bloody boyfriend could get me outed as an alchemist".

Newton and de Duillier parted after about four years, when the pressures of the relationship seemed to get to Newton.


(Mark Steel)

I mean, come on. That's a great story. It seems ridiculous that students should be able to talk about Newton's alchemy, and his pursuit of a man of silver who could change the color of nature, or his association with the Rosicrucians, but not about the fact that his breakdown, including at least one cryptic letter to Samuel Pepys, was preceded by his apparent breakup with de Duillier.

And don't say it's not appropriate for eighth grade. If Campfield or anyone else think they're actually preventing middle school kids from knowing homosexuals exist, they're lying to themselves. Which is, of course, convenient since the primary effect of such legislation will be to further alienate teenagers who are already exceptionally alienated compared to normal teen angst and alienation.

But then again, that's probably what they really want.
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Notes:

Phillips, Bianca. "Don't Say 'Gay'". Memphis Flyer Online. January 31, 2008. See http://www.memphisflyer.com/memphis/Content?oid=oid:38592

Steel, Mark. "Sir Isaac Newton". The Mark Steel Lectures. See http://www.open2.net/marksteel/newton_lecture.html
For the time being, at least, this episode of The Mark Steel Lectures is available via YouTube in three parts (1, 2, 3). The portion transcribed above occurs in the third part, beginning at approximately 3:25. I recommend the whole episode, of course.​
 
Bigot Obama? Or ... Bigot Obama!

Homophobic Obama?
Candidate snubbed SF mayor over gay marriage


It is, of course, one of the safer issues out there. Any presidential candidate can be a bigot, as long as it's against homosexuals. No fear. No reason to fear. They're a small minority. They face widespread opposition that, especially for its utter irrationality, makes pandering to hatemongers an easy decision. For Barack Obama, the decision is a no-brainer; he even counts vicious (and possibly self-hating) homophobe Donnie McClurkin among his allies.

Currently, though, former San Francisco Mayor Willie Brown has raised the issue, recalling that Obama asked him to give a fundraiser, but refused to be photographed with current Mayor Gavin Newsom.

But just four years ago, current Democratic presidential candidate Barack Obama is said to have declined to have his picture taken in San Francisco with Newsom, who was then at the center of a national uproar over his decision to allow same-sex marriage in San Francisco.

"I gave a fundraiser, at his (Obama's) request at the Waterfront restaurant," said former San Francisco Mayor Willie Brown. "And he said to me, he would really appreciate it if he didn't get his photo taken with my mayor. He said he would really not like to have his picture taken with Gavin."

Today, of course, Obama's people are backpedaling away from that account like crazy. His deputy campaign director, Steve Hildebrand, who lives with his partner as an openly gay man, calls it "a ridiculous story."

"Barack Obama gets his picture taken with gay people all the time," Hildebrand said.
"Including me, his deputy campaign manager."

But insiders at City Hall, both current and former members of Newsom's staff, recall the incident well. And you can bet that Newsom hasn't forgotten it either.


(Nevius)

Perhaps the problem with Hildebrand's response on behalf of his boss is that it smacks of Huckabee's anti-Catholic stunt last year. After a staffer insulted Catholics by saying they were unfit for the presidency, Huckabee trotted out a gay campaign manager to pile on the bigotry. Hildebrand and Obama would probably like to forget the issue. While few gays would defect to the GOP camp over something like this, many might consider third-party candidates, and would always remember the nation's first black president as a bigot.

For Brown's part, he can even sympathize with Obama's decision, except that the campaign is trying to hide from it:

Though same-sex marriage is still a hot-button issue in 2008, it is no longer the shocker that had the country in an uproar four and five years ago. Until you go back and look at the news stories from those days, it is easy to forget how radical and unpopular Newsom's stand was.

And, no, it wasn't just the right-wingers who were upset. It was Democrats, too, particularly those running in the presidential primary. John Kerry, for example, was careful to stage his Bay Area appearances in Oakland, not San Francisco, after the controversy hit.

"I don't know anybody in the party who was happy with him, except me," Brown said. "He was all alone out there. He was the poster child for same-sex marriage worldwide."
That's why Brown says he doesn't blame Obama for his caution. Today, of course, the Illinois senator is happy to embrace gay causes. But in 2004, nationally, same-sex marriage was a radical notion.

"What they ought to say is, 'Damn right I did it, and I'd do it again,' " Brown said of the Obama camp. "He was in a race for the Senate, and I am guessing that downstate Illinois is a pretty red (meaning conservative) group of voters."


(ibid)

And perhaps this is of much comfort to those who would worry about Obama's color and heritage. For all he speaks of Dr. King and the civil rights struggle, the only civil rights he's interested in are his own. And that should be a comfort to so many Americans who feel the same. Equality is always about the self, isn't it?

And people should take note. There will be a day, perhaps even during my lifetime, when the extreme and controversial group leading politicians try to distance themselves from even while courting their votes will be Christianity. Irrational majorities do not hold forever. Of course, the nation and community are second-fiddle for this irrational majority, so maybe they'll just sink the whole thing before we ever move that far forward.
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Notes:

Nevius, C.W. "Obama snub still rankles Newsom". SFGate.com. February 5, 2008. See http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2008/02/05/BAM5US1B5.DTL

See Also:

Aravosis, John. "Obama supporter: 'I'm not in the mood to play with those who are trying to kill our children'". AmericaBlog. October 24, 2007. http://www.americablog.com/2007/10/obama-supporter-im-not-in-mood-to-play.html

Cane, Clay. "EXCLUSIVE: An Interview with Donnie McClurkin's Ex-Lover". ClayCane.com. October 25, 2007. See http://claycane.blogspot.com/2007/10/exclusive-interview-with-donnie.html
 
I do not understand why liberals have coined the term "homophobic". A phobia is an extreme fear, and homophobia would be a fear of gays. I, like many others, am not afraid of gays, but simply disgusted by them. Why would I be a homphobe? They do not frighten me, they disgust me.
 
Norsefire said:

A phobia is an extreme fear, and homophobia would be a fear of gays. I, like many others, am not afraid of gays, but simply disgusted by them. Why would I be a homphobe? They do not frighten me, they disgust me.

If you're not a homophobe, and not homosexual, it's generally enough to simply be who you are. That your opinion treads to disgust is telling.

Now, maybe you're someone who never receives fellatio, and maybe you've never performed anal sex on anyone. In which case the question is why homosexuals and not the practices in general. "Nature" does not suffice for an answer, since homosexual behavior occurs in other animals.

That focus is symptomatic of significance, and that significance is likely fear, however sublimated it might be.

Since we've been through this before, I'll leave it for you to think through again.
 
Seriously: who is scared of gay people?

What's the ancient Greek word for "disgust"? It should be used over "phobia".
 
Seriously: who is scared of gay people?

Homosexuality if genetic is a genetic flaw-defect and a very serious one at that as part of our very existence and that of all animals depends on our ability and want to reproduce.

If everyone from here on out is born gay well, the world would soon come to an end as there would be no young people to grow up and educate and work and care for the older people.
 
kadark, why?

What every happened to the ethical principles of AUTONAMY????

it isnt concidered a mental illness its concidered to be a caricter trait i would guess.

lets forget gender for a second and look at other sexual prefferences. I HATE blonds, i find them to be the most unatractive group of people in the world. I LOVE red heads they are apsolutly gorgious. Now why should MY sexual prefference for red heads be made Law. Should all blonds be killed? should there be a law that a) outlaws blond hair dye and b) forces blonds to dye there hair red to please ME?

No there shouldn't.

It breaches the principles of autonomy, non-malfecance and justice. The same is true of gays, they have as much right to do what makes them happy and be surported in that by sociaty and goverment as anyone else
 
Asguard

With all due respect, what the hell are you talking about? Your points are so far off from what I said, that I feel it's not worth responding to.
 
Sorry i was responding to both you and dragon (might have been a little harsh on you because i was irritated at the post below yours)

It irritates me that because im currently with a women its ok but when i was dating a guy its wrong. There was nothing wrong with it (except that the guy was a dickhead)
 
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