I keep seeing the same thing over and over again, why not tell them to
stop also because they are repeating themselves as ? Is it just because I
take a stand against what is being stated or that I'm an old crudgmuffin?
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I keep seeing the same thing over and over again, why not tell them to
stop also because they are repeating themselves as ? Is it just because I
take a stand against what is being stated or that I'm an old crudgmuffin?
protection is used ALL THE TIME, and why is it commiting adultery when my husband is actually in the same room has me when we do it?
Did you know when you got married this is something you would do? Was it discussed? How long into the marriage did the swinging start.
Yeah A lot of questions! If you are not comfortable answering them don't worry .
..."Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person
and one who is not his or her spouse. Some legal jurisdictions have defined
it as "crime against marriage".
Enmos
Valued Senior Member
But I thought something is jurisdictionally not a crime until the 'victim' acknowledges it as such..
If either one of the married couple wants to file for divorce that is when this
type of activity can be used against the other person. Otherwise it is just
like playing Russian Roulette you never know when you're going to catch a
disease or even a jealous type hurting someone that doesn't stop when
they do.
type of activity can be used against the other person. Otherwise it is just
like playing Russian Roulette you never know when you're going to catch a
disease or even a jealous type hurting someone that doesn't stop when
they do.
I keep seeing the same thing over and over again, why not tell them to
stop also because they are repeating themselves as ? Is it just because I
take a stand against what is being stated or that I'm an old crudgmuffin?
Since she is answering questions, that is different from you giving your same (unrequested) opinion over, is it not?
no we didnt know this would happen when we got married, in fact i was anti anything "strange" or "weird" yes it was discussed because there was no way we would go into anything like this without talking it through first, in order to have a secret word, that we agree on if either of us isnt comfortable, and it started about 6 years into the marrage!
i am always open to answering questions, that doesnt bother me
Enmos
Valued Senior Member
So it actually isn't adultery until one of them wants it to be, jurisdictionally speaking :shrug:
Do you swing with the same couples? Or do you venture out with new ppl all the time?
God you are NOSEY LOL
its generaly the same couples!
I'm sure that nobody involved ever has sex with someone outside the group. And I'm sure that people with such low hygienic standards would be careful to be often tested.
But the question wasn't for you.
Umm, I don't know, the "sex with multiple anonymous partners" part?
I love how you guys can condemn gay couples for "eww, omg homosexuality is gross!" and then go "it's so cool to have sex with random people, as long as it's heterosexual!"
I mean, I don't particularly care - it's just another avenue for Father Darwin to pick off the weak, but it's particularly amusing from homophobes.