I guess you need to reread....You brought the subject of blacks and gay/lesbians.....not me....you compared slavery to having sex with the same sex person....not me!
Yes, I brought up the subjects of how blacks and gays are discriminated against. However, your response was basically "How DARE you compare gays to blacks" which means you're saying blacks went through worse things so you were the one to insinuate slavery because that's the only thing that gays haven't gone through yet all other social discrimination and prejudice between the two are the same.
How am I insulting my (so claimed by you) people. I'm an american...that's it.
Yeah, but where I quoted you, you first said "I never said I was black" as if some huge defensiveness all of a sudden happened, then you said you're American as if trying to hide the fact that you're black.. as if you're ashamed to be. That's why I said you'd be insulting others. Now if I read that wrong, then sorry, but that's how I interpreted it. Gotta love text.
Don't forget...I have indian blood running through my veins as well...oh back on point. It's because Indians are stronger than blacks and whites put together.
Wow, and you're speaking with such outrage because someone compares gay prejudice to black prejudice. Where's all the venom to speak out of the crimes that have happened to Indians which, might I add, is a million times worse. You basically call gays wimps because they haven't gone through what blacks do, why doesn't your Indian side call all the complaining blacks wimps because they didn't go through what Indians did?
But those statistics are just that. Real life problems (Sad but true).
But like I said, problems that almost everyone has to deal with. Those numbers are only as high as they were because it dealt with high schoolers and they're immature. Go find a study on various unpopular groups and you'll see similar results. So what's the point of adding those statistics to the discussion? The only reason would be to make it look as if gays are unfit to adopt children and well, it fails horrendously. You can't compare petty high school problems to older mature people that have gone through that stage who now want to adopt kids.
You're exactly what Bells accuses me of! A racist calling someone else a racist! but for you....it's true.
Nope, not a racist. I'm purposely talking shit to you as I tend to do with most idiots that have yet to socially evolve. Bigots, racists, prejudiced people all fall under that category and well, you're one. And no, I'm not gay either just in case you think that's why I'm tossing heat your way.
As for aaallllaallll of this EVERYBODYS PREJUDICE!!!! Even Gays/Lesbians
Yep and that just proves how idiotic your statements are. What were my comments in response to that you quoted?
"Just because I'm not white, you think I'm supposed to somehow have been affected by prejudice???? How racist is that!"
See? Calling me a racist all because of that. It's the stupid stuff you say which is making me talk shit to you. If you're calling me a racist for something I said that isn't racist, I'm gonna at least start saying racist things to you if I'm gonna be labelled one.
You're so smart....an opinion can't be flawed.......IT'S AN OPINION! DUDE!
Opinion - A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof
Actually, no, those aren't your opinions, they're your BELIEFS. And beliefs are accepted as truth, which is why I said your beliefs (I actually said opinion but that's not what I meant) have so many flaws in them. And god, what a racist. You think all cause I'm white, you can start saying "dude" around me. Damn, boo.
It's the same damned thing. All those whites in the past didn't discriminate against SOME blacks either, they're just against ALL blacks wanting to drink from the same fountain as them.. or use the same bathroom.. or be near them on the bus.. or any other limitation placed upon them. You seriously don't get it. Since you love to play the "poor me racist card", damn since you don't get it, I guess blacks really ARE mentally inferior. Here's a b-ball, go involve yourself with something you should be good at rather than these discussions. Remember, that comment wasn't towards SOME blacks, it was towards ALL blacks because if it's against ALL of them, that mean's I'm not being racist or discriminating. Your thinking.
And I'm the prejudist racist huh......Bells....this is the person on your side (gays/lesbians) you can have him
As I said, I'm gonna follow up with a stupid comment for each of yours. If you would hint the sarcasm, it was in response so your comment of:
"Once again! I'm not discriminating against some homo's....I'm against all homo's who want to adopt children. That's it!
And you call me Racist?"
As you can see, my comment wasn't racist or discriminatory according to you since it wasn't directed at some blacks, but rather all. Hey, equal opportunity, I guess.
I think that people need to keep their legs closed or at least use a better method of (birth control) child protection.
I think that the government needs to try and get children (that parents may have been killed) to other relatives and help them out financially (not a lot) until that child is 18. If no relative is willing to take the child. Then let a single stable person adopt the child and also help them financially (not a lot) until said child is 18 or is considered an adult in some states. But make sure the child is also put in programs while growing up...ie...boys and girls club....or something to that effect.
I think people who can't have their on children (except for gay/lesbian) to be first on the list to adopt whether single or married. (see above on being single). I think everyone before marriage should be ordered to take child care classes and marriage classes before entering a very important, life long commitment. I would rather pay my taxes taking care of children and education than paying taxes for welfare and unecessary war! If none of the above statements are enough then let the gay/lesbian community adopt with conditions....like social behavior studies and classes for the gay/lesbian couples therapy. (shi!t like that) Is this wrong?
I almost agree with that completely, except I need a definition of what you consider "a single stable person" to mean. Does that mean, only a heterosexual person can ever be stable? If so, pure BS. Otherwise if you mean anyone regardless of sex or sexual preference, then I agree. The other thing I disagree with is your limitation on only allowing adoptions to be done by a single person. Being brought up by a single parent is the WORSE thing that can be done. It's worse than having a kid brought up with a house full of homosexuals or anything else you can think of that might sound bad. Single parents just don't have the time these days for their kids and that neglection is what leads to most problems kids have such as the problems listed below in the article quote.
And hey, I responded to that, now where's your response to some of our questions? Such as, since natural reproduction is the reason why you don't want homosexuals to marry, what is your opinion on couples that get married but choose to not have kids or couples that get married and want to have kids but can't biologically due to reproductive problems? And also, since you as a black/indian/whatever-else-you-may-be woman who has gone through prejudice, or at least the majority of those two racials groups have, why would you wish others, such as gays, or anyone for that matter, to go through that; as minor as it may be?
Among children raised by same-sex couples, the report notes a significant increase in low self-esteem, stress, confusion regarding sexual identity, an increase in mental illness, drug use, promiscuity, STD’s, and homosexual behaviour, amongst others. Furthermore, the report shows that statistics have brought to light the fact that same-sex relationships betray a much higher instance of separation and break-up than heterosexual relationships, increasing the likelihood that the child will experience familial instability.
Quoted for that article you linked, those are the reasons why homosexuals are unfit to adopt children? Sorry, but that's some funny ass stuff right there. Who the hell doesn't have those problems at one time or another? Not to mention those studies were probably in the 90's which is when sex in the media started becoming real popular which meant kids started becoming more sexually active, partying, takin more drugs than usual and whatnot. Not to mention those problems exist within heterosexual families as well. And what's with same-sex relationships having a higher instance of seperation and break-up? Lol. I know many heterosexual people that have gone through relationships like crazy. No way am I saying homosexuals that adopt children are perfect because nobody is. Bad homosexual adoptees exist just like bad heterosexual adoptees exist. Those orphanges need to do better in choosing people to release the child to. But sexual preference has nothing to do with them being worse than the next. A bad person is just a bad person regardless.
There was other stuff I was gonna post, but uh, I forgot what I was gonna say.
- N
