wynn,
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Is this an example of me refusing to give clarifiction?
If you think it is, then I think you should point it out.
As far as I'm concerned this is an acurate descritpion of your character from our past communications.
Why should I be an example or role model to anyone?
You're the one who makes these imaginary attachments to a person who simply believes in God.
And further more, upon the revelation that such attachments don't occurr because one may believe, you
still go on and on about it. That's why I say ''it's all in head'' and ''you don't listen''.
More imaginary attachments.
Why don't you save these inputs for someone who agrees with you, because you're getting no joy in bringing
it up, to me?
No I'm not. You kill a discussion by creating imaginary attachments to the term 'theist', thereby dictating
what a theist should be, I end up spending time creating posts, explaining (as a theist) that's not how it goes.
We go back and forth on the same old nonsense just wasting time. You do it all the time.
Did you comprehend what I said?
Can't you respond to that rather than go off on a different tangent.
:wallbang:
Another of example of how misquoteing is dangerous.
I know that people will pretend to be unaware of something. Are they ''liars'', I don't know. Is a good poker player
a liar, or does he creating false scenarios to give a certain impression which may be favourable to him? You decide.
No it doesn't. Again you're making assumptions based on what's in your head.
A theist simply believes in God, there's nothing more. No angels, harps, special powers, tickets to goody-two-shoes land, nothing.
Whether or not I care isn't the issue. I like to discuss these types of subects, I happen to believe in God. Why do you think I have to care about you or anyone else I talk to in these forums?
Even if that was true, it works both ways.
We're all talking about God, sweetheart, that's what's so brilliant.
When somebody declares that ''God does not exist'', or ''God is meaningless'', or ''God is evil'', or ''God is a ficticious character'', and all the other things people say, isn't the onus on them? Don't you think there position is one of ''knowing better''?
You express them, I explain to you I'm not Jesus Christ, or even close, but you still insist on all this ''theists are supposed to be this and that. LEAVE IT OUT! I'm a normal guy who believes in God, as opposed to a normal guy who doesn't. I come on here to talk about God from the perspective of these forums. If peeps are talking about evolution providing evidence of no God, or God doesn't exist because of lack of evidence, and other such topics, I'm interested and want to put my two cents in. THAT'S ALL.
The person/people in question understand me alright, they just don't like what I'm saying.
Maybe if I came across as a christian evangelist, they would feel more comfortable, even though it's
potentially more aggressive than my actual input.
I write off ''tangents and distraction'', not fears and concerns.
You've shown that you only loosely understand what I say, and you inferr the rest, then you stick to
that, and I have to spend time going and explaining what I meant, only to realise my explanations don't
mean anything to you
jan.
Of course you do, just in this post, you did it again.
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you said:But to make matters worse, many theists don't seem to care about that, and instead pressure the other party and accuse them of lowly intentions and mental and moral deficiency.
me said:Nonsense.
You don't listen, and you infer, and go off on tangents. I've called you on it, but you ignore it and carry on regardless.
Is this an example of me refusing to give clarifiction?
If you think it is, then I think you should point it out.
As far as I'm concerned this is an acurate descritpion of your character from our past communications.
It's called "teaching by example" or "modeling; being a role model."
Why should I be an example or role model to anyone?
You're the one who makes these imaginary attachments to a person who simply believes in God.
And further more, upon the revelation that such attachments don't occurr because one may believe, you
still go on and on about it. That's why I say ''it's all in head'' and ''you don't listen''.
Yes.
More imaginary attachments.
Why don't you save these inputs for someone who agrees with you, because you're getting no joy in bringing
it up, to me?
You are jumping to conclusions again.
No I'm not. You kill a discussion by creating imaginary attachments to the term 'theist', thereby dictating
what a theist should be, I end up spending time creating posts, explaining (as a theist) that's not how it goes.
We go back and forth on the same old nonsense just wasting time. You do it all the time.
And yet your manner of communication continues to prove our assumption.
Did you comprehend what I said?
Can't you respond to that rather than go off on a different tangent.
You mean I refuse to simply subject myself to your judgments of me?
You mean I refuse to simply introject the things you project onto and into me?
:wallbang:
So you are actually ready to believe that people are simply lying, pretending and denying when they say they can't relate to something you've said?
Another of example of how misquoteing is dangerous.
I know that people will pretend to be unaware of something. Are they ''liars'', I don't know. Is a good poker player
a liar, or does he creating false scenarios to give a certain impression which may be favourable to him? You decide.
me said:Then accept, deny, or wait till the answer becomes clear.
No, that won't do:
because the whole communication on theistic topics depends on one's stance toward this assumption, and one cannot but make it one way or another.
No it doesn't. Again you're making assumptions based on what's in your head.
A theist simply believes in God, there's nothing more. No angels, harps, special powers, tickets to goody-two-shoes land, nothing.
I keep telling you that I think that you do not care about the people you are actually talking to.
Whether or not I care isn't the issue. I like to discuss these types of subects, I happen to believe in God. Why do you think I have to care about you or anyone else I talk to in these forums?
You have a completely different conversation going on than they. You are not actually talking to them. You repeatedly ignore and dismiss, and also ridicule their fears and concerns.
(This is actually typical for theists in general - they tend to have a monologue.)
Even if that was true, it works both ways.
But since you are the one talking about "God," thus you are the one coming across as knowing better, the greater onus is on you.
We're all talking about God, sweetheart, that's what's so brilliant.
When somebody declares that ''God does not exist'', or ''God is meaningless'', or ''God is evil'', or ''God is a ficticious character'', and all the other things people say, isn't the onus on them? Don't you think there position is one of ''knowing better''?
I am expressing my concerns. Which you repeatedly ignore and dismiss. As if I don't matter.
You are the one who carries on regardless.
You express them, I explain to you I'm not Jesus Christ, or even close, but you still insist on all this ''theists are supposed to be this and that. LEAVE IT OUT! I'm a normal guy who believes in God, as opposed to a normal guy who doesn't. I come on here to talk about God from the perspective of these forums. If peeps are talking about evolution providing evidence of no God, or God doesn't exist because of lack of evidence, and other such topics, I'm interested and want to put my two cents in. THAT'S ALL.
To have a meaningful communication: ie. where you feel you are understood, and where the other party feels you understand them, and where you both care about understanding eachother and being understood.
The person/people in question understand me alright, they just don't like what I'm saying.
Maybe if I came across as a christian evangelist, they would feel more comfortable, even though it's
potentially more aggressive than my actual input.
For one, most people have fears and concerns anyway, so this is something to always consider.
For two, people also often state their fears and concerns.
Which, however, you often simply write off as "tangents" and "distractions" and such.
I write off ''tangents and distraction'', not fears and concerns.
You've shown that you only loosely understand what I say, and you inferr the rest, then you stick to
that, and I have to spend time going and explaining what I meant, only to realise my explanations don't
mean anything to you
jan.