I've explained why mine isn't open-ended. Feel free to explain precisely how it is.
well I guess we will just have to wait and see how your attempted explanations weather later on in the post
in the absence of you quoting me I think we can safely assume you are just making stuff up againYou all have. You've advocated that women stop consuming alcohol in public.
On the radical extremes of prevention is solely your contribution to this thread (eg "man " as a category of hazard)- you say it is the necessary consequence of an open ended preventative strategy ... hence you run in to the exact same problems when you cannot adequately explain how your favoured preventative strategies are also not open endedAll of you endorse a strategy that implicates the woman if she does not take the most extreme measures to avoid rape. The jig is up, LG.
If you are trying to find an example of me suggesting women are always in imminent danger from men, I think you just failedYes you did, when you provided two examples of men hitting on women who did not want their attention. You painted both scenarios as dangerous.
You doofus.Incorrect.
Risk assessment is precisely what transpires when a person comes to the conclusion that they are in a dangerous or uncomfortable position
because you are trying to explain how personal safety pivots on being aware of one's surroundings and comfortable while simultaneously desperately trying to suggest this has no implications regarding the consumption of alcohol or the nature of "man" being the effective and ultimate hazard category fro rape.I don't know why I should have to explain either.
So once again, feel free to explain how alcohol doesn't affect awareness or how a woman can feel comfortable in the presence of a man .. or alternatively we can just file this away as yet another question you are incapable of giving a straight forward answer to since it cuts to close to the bone of your delicate arguments
Here let me make this simple for you :I never claimed the first was true, and I never claimed the other wasn't.
You say prevention involves being aware and comfortable.
You also say that your ideas on prevention are not open ended since they do not work in regulating alcohol consumption in any manner or utilize "man" as a hazard category.
This is why I ask you to explain how alcohol doesn't affect awareness or how a woman can feel comfortable in the presence of a man ... .
Its not rocket science.
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No.If this is your clumsy way of trying to say my theories are open-ended because I promote awareness of surrounding when alcohol dulls the senses, I think my answer to billvon's drunk driver analogy works well enough:
Its got nothing to do about driving a vehicle, blaming the victim or anything like that.
Its got to do with your idea that successful prevention strategies operate out of a sense of awareness and how you are trying to simultaneously maintaining this has zero impact on the topic of alcohol consumption.
Perhaps this statement would be relevant if had something to do with your idea of "awareness".Normally, I would assume the reader is competent enough to understand the point being made, but since you've given me ample reason to believe otherwise, I'll explain: There are standards by which we measure ourselves and our actions, that dictate what is expected of us and what isn't. In the case of rape prevention, it is not acceptable to demand that women stop imbibing alcohol simply because the guy in the bar leering at them might be a rapist. If they get drunk and are raped, we understand this is the fault of the rapist, not the intoxicated victim. Just as we understand when a person who opts for dangerous medical procedures are accepting responsibility for the risk involved, the concept of responsibility in most cases is pretty clearly defined.
After all, you do say : Trust your instincts, be loud when you're in a threatening situation, be aware of your location, don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing. and that this is not open ended.
So to repeat the question yet again, please explain how alcohol consumption does not affect awareness and how a woman can be comfortable in the association of men, since "men" is a category you affirm as being the ultimate hazard category of risk.
In the absence of you answering this question in a relevant manner, we can safely assume that you too are incapable of advocating a preventative measure that is not (apparently) open ended.
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Before we move onto other topics you should first clear up how your ideas also don't suffer under the same idiotic standard you are trying to level at other people's comments.What you and your friends have done in this thread is thrown that standard away. Indeed, some of you have even suggested that it doesn't--and shouldn't--exist. The context of this advocacy is every bit as important as the advice itself.
So first you say your theory isn't open-ended, but now you say all prevention theory is open-ended?
I am simply pointing out how you have not distinguished yourself in any coherent manner from your own idiotic ideas on how the prevention strategies of others is open ended.
Once again, perhaps this would be relevant if you could explain it in relation to Trust your instincts, be loud when you're in a threatening situation, be aware of your location, don't do anything you aren't comfortable doing.No, I addressed it directly. To wit:
This is why I would suggest the only reasonable advocacy in rape prevention are tactics that don't cost you anything, and come entirely natural. Raising your voice, refusing to do things you're frightened of or uncomfortable with, etc., are items that don't need to be taught, but can be advised, and don't require the person to change their lives. It doesn't require them to classify men as a risk category, it doesn't presuppose rape is imminent, and it doesn't dissuade anyone from behaviors--thereby slamming the door on anyone who wants to shift blame to the victim. (This is also accomplished by not leaving the standard-setting to the individual; they are still free to live as liberally or conservatively as they choose, but now they won't be blamed if they don't, say, abstain from alcohol and are subsequently raped)
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well it does require you to stop drinking, even if it is momentarilyGoing somewhere else doesn't equate to giving up the booze.
You mean seek the assistance of other potential rapists?She could easily go to another bar. At any rate, I also said in the real world, a bouncer or bartender would have thrown the jerk out on his ass long before she was ever faced with such a decision.
Or do you mean to say that the notion of working with the category of "man" as a risk hazard is a crock of shit that you simply invented for the sake of launching spurious arguments?
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I think its more revealing how you slip and can't even hold onto the bullshit of your arguments the moment you start to discuss real lifeIt's interesting that you aren't aware of this. I'm noticing another trend among your kind: a lack of a social life.
what can I say ... you certainly bring humor in your own unique way to many scenariosBy the way, is "funnily enough" your new tic?
What can I say (other saying "what can I say" for the second time in a row I guess ...)Liar:
I have reported you for lying.
Once again, perhaps that would make sense if you could explain how issues of HED (heavy episodic drinking) and drinking in public are identical .... particularly since a licensed establishment can face criminal charges for serving alcohol to persons undergoing HED (at least in many parts of the world)
I guess its even easier to pretend that there is no difference between HED and drinking in public ... yet another bullshit notion of yours that crumbles the moment you dare to talk about the real world again, no doubt ....Yeah, I suppose it's easier to run and hide from the tough points.
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Now I guess we just have to wait for you explain how what you are advocating - namely awareness and comfort - is also not open endedExactly. You're finally learning!
Err ... no you didn'tMy ideas aren't open-ended, for the reasons stated above. (And in previous posts)
I've already done it.
I was talking about awareness and comfort.
You didn't begin to explain how this effectively rules out regulating one's drinking habits or using "man" as a hazard category.
All you talked about was drink driving and attributing blame, which is totally irrelevant to the topic at hand.
It was "Isolating risk assessment by the individual", you doofusIsolating risk assessment to the individual does the opposite of that.
I guess when you start making such bad arguments, its convenient not to pay attention to what you said :This is a red herring. These issues don't have to be uniform. That's not a requisite for sensible, finite prevention advocacy.
I'm saying people should live their lives, and women shouldn't be expected to exercise more caution than men simply because rapists exist.
and I am saying ,once again, you will have to explain how the comfort and awareness issues are uniform for both genders ... and furthermore , this seems to me to be an impossible task since one cannot even discuss comfort and awareness issues being uniform for two individuals (much less two genders).
Hint : Uniform means the same ... as opposed to one being more than or less than another.
And what is plainly obvious to everyone is that you can't explain this reasonable standard of comfort without talking about an individual's systematic approach to risk assessment and management.Again, the issue of comfort doesn't make the theory open-ended. There only needs to be a standard for what is reasonable, not what is comfortable.
Unfortunately you have disregarded that as sufficient grounds for establishing a preventative strategy as closed .... so thats why you are left completely incapable of explaining how your ideas of "comfort" and awareness are not open ended
No more than you just said you enjoy taking vast quantities of narcotics and playing erotic games with livestock while listening to loudly playing death metal.So then you're saying any woman who gets drunk knowing that alcohol can be a contributing factor to rape is at fault.