Hi Signal,
Happy New Year.
First, why do you think these acts are 'sanctioned by God'.
Do the victims know this to be the case, or, do they believe this to be the case?
Either way give reason.
Alot of the priests who commited these acts were mentally damaged from their own childhood experiences. This is a plausible reason for their acts, as it is consistent with this behaviour in or out of the church.
Wishing you a happy new year too.
The computer is back and functioning?
I suppose victims merely believe this to be the case.
Because to know that those acts of abuse are 'sanctioned by God' would require a knowledge base that I am sure would be so big that it would easily and meaningfully contextualize the abuse, lead the victim to understand it, and feel equanimous about it.
There is definitely someting exceptionally sinister about abuse in the name of God or when the perpetrators are people of God, as this will lead the victim to doubt everything about existence and its source.
"Ordinary abuse" does not have the profound philosophical implications that abuse in the name of God has or when the perpetrators are people of God.
But why do victims hold on to the belief that those acts of abuse are 'sanctioned by God'?
The definition of what goes for "mentally damaged" can be relativized too, no?
This makes the ideal situation to create atheists, should that be a goal.
But why do victims hold on to the belief that those acts of abuse are 'sanctioned by God'?
The same reason why muslim/islam/terrorist are linked in the psyche.
"Ordinary abuse" does not have the profound philosophical implications that abuse in the name of God has or when the perpetrators are people of God.
Or so we believe.
The argument could be made that someone who truly believes in God would not abuse people, much less in the name of God; and that therefore someone who abuses people does not actually believe in God; and moreover, someone who does not believe in God tries to make others not believe in God either.
For example: My father has been an atheist his whole adult life. His parents were staunch Catholics. They beat him, in the name of God. My grandfather was trying very hard for my father (then a boy) to become a priest, for it was very good for a family to produce a priest, it brought high social status. So they had sessions where they went through Latin liturgy etc.; my father had to kneel on the cold stone floor of the church while his father made him repeat those texts and yelled at him and beat him (in the church). (My father told me how he came to hate the church, God and religion.)
Why would a father do that to his son?
I don't understand?
Do you suggest that victims of abuse in the name of God are potential terorrists?
Why do you think we believe that?
The argument could be made that someone who truly believes in God would not abuse people, much less in the name of God; and that therefore someone who abuses people does not actually believe in God; and moreover, someone who does not believe in God tries to make others not believe in God either.
I don't think it is as simple as that.
I don't know.
Would this make any difference if his parents weren't staunch catholics, but staunch academics, or, communists?
The idea has been implanted into our minds, so when we hear the word terrorist, suicide bombs, fanatic, and so on, it automatically triggers muslim/islam.
"Ordinary abuse" does not have the profound philosophical implications that abuse in the name of God has or when the perpetrators are people of God.
Why do you think we believe that?
You tell me, you stated it.
Impossible, these are men of god and are well above such things. They have been chosen amongst all men to have this honor bestowed upon them, therefore whatever they do is sanctioned by god.
not me..i believe the ppl who believe in god are just as human as those who do not..(i'm a believer,and i know i am messed up..)Several posters in this thread seem to think so too; there seems to be an intuitive understanding that it is reasonable to expect that people of God cannot and should not do any wrong.
Many of us have come to believe that the authority of anyone who claims to act in God's name or know God must not be questioned.
Many of us have come to believe that the authority of anyone who claims to act in God's name or know God must not be questioned.
I am surprised by this comment... Do you know how you came to believe this?
not me..i believe the ppl who believe in god are just as human as those who do not..
i believe there are those who are in the spiritual leader role, who are pressured to be perfect by those he is leading..how much does this contribute to the problems?
keep in mind whenever an atheist points to a believers imperfection, it offends them ,why?
why is it so important to not show our imperfections?
this is your grandpa's thinking..
their age said don't question..
our age is to question..
i would agree with that, they should have more experience in such matters,but i don't think it is reasonable to take what they say and make it law..IOW utilize what they say to help you 'think for yourself' not 'do as your told'..Well, it is reasonable to expect that those who have obtained leadership positions would also be spiritually advanced, is it not?i believe there are those who are in the spiritual leader role, who are pressured to be perfect by those he is leading..how much does this contribute to the problems?
yea..i should have said 'many atheist'..I'm not sure this is _always_ the case.keep in mind whenever an atheist points to a believers imperfection, it offends them ,why?
because it gets old having ppl take advantage of our imperfections.Because we are trying to get more than we are qualified for?why is it so important to not show our imperfections?
depends if you are seeking understanding or justification..What point is questioning if it doesn't really get you anywhere?this is your grandpa's thinking..
their age said don't question..
our age is to question..
keep in mind whenever an atheist points to a believers imperfection, it offends them ,why?
I'm not sure this is _always_ the case.
yea..i should have said 'many atheist'..
depends if you are seeking understanding or justification..
Could you say a bit more?
The argument could be made that someone who truly believes in God would not abuse people, much less in the name of God; and that therefore someone who abuses people does not actually believe in God; and moreover, someone who does not believe in God tries to make others not believe in God either.
Staunch academics or communists generally do not try to get their sons to become Catholic priests to begin with ...
Do you mean that similarly, the idea has been implanted into our minds that people of God can do no wrong and that therefore when we hear that a child is abused by a priest, we conclude that this is not wrong ?
Several posters in this thread seem to think so too; there seems to be an intuitive understanding that it is reasonable to expect that people of God cannot and should not do any wrong.
You seem to be suggesting that one ought to accept that even people of God or people who claim to act in God's name can do wrong, and should be considered as having done wrong (as opposed to writing off their behavior as "divine lesson for the victim" or "you should turn the other cheek" or some such).
Many of us have come to believe that the authority of anyone who claims to act in God's name or know God must not be questioned.
You, on the other hand, seem to suggest that this be not so.
If this is so, can you explain on the grounds of what you think so?
the atheist (suppose theist also) acts like perfection is supposed to be the result of believing in god,whenever a believer confesses belief, an atheist will immediately start pointing at their imperfections, as if it is a measurement of that belief. its like the atheist get offended cause the believer is not perfect.There seems to be a misunderstanding here.
I first took you to mean that whenever an atheist points to a believer's imperfection, the believer takes offense. To this, I commented that this might not always be the case.
But I am not sure now what you first meant -?
justification vs understanding..What difference do you see between the two?
I can believe in God today, and tommorow lack belief, because of any number of reasons. Our actions are the measure of who and what we are.
A better argument would be that someone who has good intelligence would not abuse people.
They may employ the same level of passion to become academics, or, communists.
No. The idea of people can do no wrong, is not a religious one. At least a religion which bases its structure on scriptures.
Victims hold on to the belief that those acts of abuse are 'sanctioned by God' because it's okay to believe and accept that.
It was okay for George Bush to anounce that he invaded Iraq because God told him to do it. Nobody questioned it. It is accepted, and more importantly, will go down in history as factual.
Several posters in this thread seem to think so too; there seems to be an intuitive understanding that it is reasonable to expect that people of God cannot and should not do any wrong.
That is a set-up.
When such a person does something wrong, they say, told you it was all bullshit.
The only way to understand religion properly is to serve someone who follows it properly, who served someone, and so on...
If someone claims something and we do not understand, or are unsure, then we should not be bullied into a situation where we learn to BELIEVE.
Notice when discussing the many downsides of evolution theory, the evolutionist standard retort is, you do not know what evolution is.
So either we believe evolution is true, or we are stupid for not believing.
You will find the same practices in many religious denominations.
By not questioning it, you accept that they HAVE the the authority. WHY?Many of us have come to believe that the authority of anyone who claims to act in God's name or know God must not be questioned.
You, on the other hand, seem to suggest that this be not so.
If this is so, can you explain on the grounds of what you think so?
It's quite simple.
They could be con-artists.
the atheist (suppose theist also) acts like perfection is supposed to be the result of believing in god,whenever a believer confesses belief, an atheist will immediately start pointing at their imperfections, as if it is a measurement of that belief. its like the atheist get offended cause the believer is not perfect.
justification vs understanding..
when a person is looking for justification they tend to stop listening/understanding when the discussion leads to changes in their understanding, they will only listen when the discussion lines up with their understanding of things, when it does not line up they will get defensive,
The theist wants to rule, get the upper hand in the relationship. After all, the theist makes claims to know the Ruler of the Universe Himself. The theist speaks from the perspective that God is on his side, but against the other person.
When the theist turns out to be imperfect in some way, this can lead people to be reluctant to let the theist have the upper hand.
Do you think this is wrong?
i was using it as most new users here get on and post their attitudes/beliefs in an attempt to get someone to agree with them, then they get irate when no-one does..they are not seeking understanding, they are seeking to justify their own attitudes/beliefs..(i suppose the word validate also works),I don't understand that ...
By justification, I mean something like this - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_justification
i think there is an element of atheist WANT theist to be right,they want to be able to dissociate their responsibility for their actions (theist also) and do that action because they were told to..ppl want to believe that theist have better knowledge concerning what is right and wrong in gods eyes..but that isn't always the case..
the upper hand you speak of is just an attempt to get ppl to listen to them and do as they are told.
fundamentally this is wrong..(there are exceptions) but we should take responsibility for our own beliefs and actions..the excuse 'because he told me to' does not hold up.
this line ends up being 'do as your told' vs 'think for yourself'