Personally, I disagree with the message. Why should someone else be accountable for my mistakes?
I'm not an expert but I think the part where you ask for forgiveness is where you acknowledge your mistakes and account for them.
I mean, given the idea there was no Jesus and is no God, it seems like a modern version of self-help. Forgiving someone can profoundly impact on a persons life. Not to do so can feel like a weight. I think this part of the Xian message is really OK for people at certain times in their lives. The rest seems like crap.
How does that make sense?
Haaa - from a theist
Yeah, it doesn't make sense from a religous point of view but from a personal point of view coming at the problem at a certain time, well, it makes as much sense as advice from a therapist.
Imagine a therapist says to forgive your wife/husband. Even if you divorce you should still forgive them. They client says: THAT doesn't make sense,
they cheated on
me!
Well, maybe it doesn't make sense but lo-and-behold it is good advice.
Islam is less complicated for me. Everything is one,
I suppose Greek philosophers said the same thing.
You're not accountable for what other people do and while some human failings necessitate latitude that incorporates human desires and reactions, its better to put it behind you and move on. Now thats logical to me.
Probably for many people that's works for most things. But, there may come a time, the Gods forbid, that moving on isn't going to cut it. At that time people commit murder, get cancer, explode, implode, etc.... that's where the forgivenesses comes in.
I'm pretty sure Native Americans used animal guides in just such a way... they also believed in a Oneness ... it must be a common allegory most civilized people postulate.