Thanks, I appreciate your taking the time and effort to dig them up.
I think you could cut her a little slack on even this, the most supportive of your claim about her. There is nothing false about that, but certainly it is "one sided" in that it does not tell why it is true that Jews do and did tend to live in Ghettos. - I gave some of the reasons for their isolation in my post. IMHO, there is more blame on those who were envois of Jews than on the Jews for these Ghettos - Sometimes long ago, staying in the Ghettos was even required by the law. (I think there is a reference to this law in Shakespeare’s Merchant of Venus, but am not sure.).
Hi Billy!
I personally see nothing wrong with the desire to maintain a cultural identity. It is how we Indians have always lived. Do you think the Parsis maintaining a distinct culture through thousands of years in India was a bad thing? I don't think so. Similarly, the Jews who escaped persecution of the Romans and came to India (in fact Mumbai, my city of birth) also immediately opened a Jewish colony, like the Parsis opened a Parsi colony. They still have small colonies originating from the original ones.
Like this:
Kurla Bene Israel
275 C.S.T. Rd, Jewish Colony, Kurla (W) Mumbai, India
This is perfectly acceptable in India where no one cares how conservative or distinct you wish to be. Infact Jews who came at different time periods are also separate from each other , just like the Parsis who came to India before Islam came to Iran and the Iranians who came to India after Islam came to Iran, consider themselves as separate and distinct groups.
Jews in India:
1. The Cochin Jews arrived in India 2,500 years ago and settled down in Cochin, Kerala as traders.
2. The Bene Israel arrived in the state of Maharashtra 2,100 years ago.
3. The Baghdadi Jews arrived in the city Mumbai from Iraq, Iran, and Afghanistan, and Arab countries about 250 years ago.
4. The Bnei Menashe are Mizo and Kuki tribesmen in Manipur and Mizoram who claim descent from the tribe of Menasseh.
5. The Bene Ephraim (also called Telugu Jews) are a small group who speak Telugu; their observance of Judaism dates to 1981.
The irony is that Jews in India all speak the local lingo and are indistinguishable from the main. Which proves to me that less discrimination equals greater assimilation.
However, as you can see from the current "discussion" on Muslims who do not "assimilate" ie wish to maintain distinct cultural identity in western nations, this is a big problem in the western culture, where lack of assimilation leads to discrimination, isolation, demonisation and finally targeting.
I do not blame the Jews for their natural desire to follow their cultural ways. Its just not the kind of thing that people in western countries are prone to appreciate.