Why only after her death? If it's OK it's OK if it's not OK then it's not OK.... after Khadijah's death, he was free to marry, ...
Actually this verse reminds me a lot of how Ghengis Khan, another nomadic leader, lived his life. Even though he had conquered most of the known world and certainly could have taken much of the world's spoils as his he instead shunned civilized life and preferred to sleep on the dirt or in the satle, eat whatever his army ate and in all continue to live a nomadic life. Of course he captured many slaves and took many women as his.Muhammad led a very ordinary life yet the life style he practiced offered an example for others to follow. So this is an invitation to search through the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) lifestyle and adopt what he did in his daily activities. To start with read what Al Hasan (son of Ali) said about the Prophet of Allah (s.a.w.s.) “Doors are not locked under him, nor do door keepers stand for him, and trays of food are not served to him in the morning or the evening. He sits on the ground and eats his food from the ground. He wears coarse (rough) clothes and rides on a donkey with others sitting behind him, and he licks his fingers after taking food.”
I wonder: What if Ghengis had declared himslef a Prophet and combined Islamic, Buddhist and Xian books into one "True Book" how many here would probably be Ghengians and suggest that his aster life was one to model oneself after and his taking many wives and slaves was natural for that time and the will of the One Buddha-God of course and spent day and day for the end of their days revering Ghengis looking forward for the day they will be able to meet one another in the next afterlife...
Seriously, if Ghengis would have made a Religion I am sure many in China, the ME and India would be revering him to this day.
Funny that no one seems to see how preposterous it all is,
Michael
Oh yeah in peoples studies did they ever come across anything that can clarify this question: Did Mohammad ever murder anyone or ever command that one of his followers murder someone? If so who were the people and under what circumstances were they murdered?
Oh, and while we're on the topic:
Did Jesus or Mosses or Bahá'u'lláh or Buddha ever murder anyone or ever command that one of their followers murder someone? If so who were the people and under what circumstances were they murdered?
[this is a morality thread right???]