Enmos
Valued Senior Member
Enmos: Jealousy may be a misquided perception of mal-intention by someone else.
Or not. You are assuming people have affairs to deliberately hurt their partner.
No, I'm saying that's what someone that is jealous may perceive. Misguided perception.
Of course. That's what jealousy is about, isn't it ? It's about you, not the person or thing you're jealous about.Well that would be inappropriate wouldn't it and a reflection on you not the neighbor.
I think you misread somewhere. The neighbor was being an asshole by playing on your jealousy, which he was well aware of.Only if you are a psychotic with a personality disorder. Think about your argument for a moment and see how absolutely insane and narcissistic it sounds. I don't think you really believe that you have the right to aggress someone simply because they chose to do with themselves or their money what free will dictates.
Both. But that's not the point.And who would look like the asshole? Who would look out of control? Who is the one reacting without grace or dignity?
The point is what's proportional.